MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Domestic violence scam to get foreign wives green card
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
This all comes back to something I read: don't go looking for an easy life. Guys bash women for running away when a man wants a relationship off the bat, but they may have the right idea. If someone basically just rolls over in a sense and makes things that easy, 9 out 10 times it's going to be trouble.
That said, if some woman is ready to marry you eventhough she lives overseas and hasn't had time to get to know you, let her go. This isn't the old days when she would be stuck with you. There are laws and rules that will give them more power along with lazy judges and lawyers who will just give the same basic rulings and arguments without taking other things into consideration.
That said, if some woman is ready to marry you eventhough she lives overseas and hasn't had time to get to know you, let her go. This isn't the old days when she would be stuck with you. There are laws and rules that will give them more power along with lazy judges and lawyers who will just give the same basic rulings and arguments without taking other things into consideration.
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WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Yeah....How do your "sweet, loving, feminine, foreign brides" look now????:crackup: