MatureDJ
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Domestic violence scam to get foreign wives green card
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
This all comes back to something I read: don't go looking for an easy life. Guys bash women for running away when a man wants a relationship off the bat, but they may have the right idea. If someone basically just rolls over in a sense and makes things that easy, 9 out 10 times it's going to be trouble.
That said, if some woman is ready to marry you eventhough she lives overseas and hasn't had time to get to know you, let her go. This isn't the old days when she would be stuck with you. There are laws and rules that will give them more power along with lazy judges and lawyers who will just give the same basic rulings and arguments without taking other things into consideration.
That said, if some woman is ready to marry you eventhough she lives overseas and hasn't had time to get to know you, let her go. This isn't the old days when she would be stuck with you. There are laws and rules that will give them more power along with lazy judges and lawyers who will just give the same basic rulings and arguments without taking other things into consideration.
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WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Yeah....How do your "sweet, loving, feminine, foreign brides" look now????:crackup: