Dogma

[bat soup]

I think there is too much dogma surrounding pickup and dating advice. In reality they're are all kinds of different people and there is no one single strategy or way of being that is going to work for everyone.

You see this with concepts such as alpha/beta, the red/blue/purple/black pill, mgtow, incels and so on. People start to identify with these groups and close their minds to any alternative way of thinking.

In the end I think that, whilst it can be useful to listen to other people's advice and learn from their experiences, you have to find your own way in life and figure out what you want to do.

 

[Lookatu]

I still say what Pook has said is 80% of this site. Derivatives in everything he covered has been repetitively covered by new comers everytime. Most everything can be associated to the 15 lessons he outlined.

In this case,

“Trust the gut.”

Be not contained by formula.

Fifteen Lessons

A young man sat and pondered the next phase of his life. “It is time,” he said, “for a girlfriend.” Yet, this new course in his life seemed both exciting and frightening. “But success will not come without much failure,” he realized. “If only there was a way to avoid the painful trials ahead.”...

www.sosuave.net

 

[darksprezzatura]

I think there is too much dogma surrounding pickup and dating advice. In reality they're are all kinds of different people and there is no one single strategy or way of being that is going to work for everyone.

You see this with concepts such as alpha/beta, the red/blue/purple/black pill, mgtow, incels and so on. People start to identify with these groups and close their minds to any alternative way of thinking.

In the end I think that, whilst it can be useful to listen to other people's advice and learn from their experiences, you have to find your own way in life and figure out what you want to do.

A lot of truth in this post. There's no better way than going out there, experimenting and through trials and errors figure out what works best for you.

This includes all aspects of life, career, dating, nutrition, exercise etc.

 

[bat soup]

I still say what Pook has said is 80% of this site. Derivatives in everything he covered has been repetitively covered by new comers everytime. Most everything can be associated to the 15 lessons he outlined.

In this case,

Fifteen Lessons

A young man sat and pondered the next phase of his life. “It is time,” he said, “for a girlfriend.” Yet, this new course in his life seemed both exciting and frightening. “But success will not come without much failure,” he realized. “If only there was a way to avoid the painful trials ahead.”...

www.sosuave.net

Yes, I like Pook. He's like the Tony Robbins of pickup.