"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dog Whisperer and Cat-string theory

Chamber36

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Hey I was just watching Caesar Milan and he was trying to help a dog that refused to eat.

What he did, when he finally got the dog curious about the food, he took it away, so as to leave the brain in that state of "I want more".

I'm thinking that when you get a girl very very interested in you, it's best to walk away at the moment they want you the most.

It's like with a child, if the child says: "I want to go to the zoo!", and you agree but tell the child he has to wait a month, the child will be much more excited by the time he gets to the zoo, because he's had time to build up anticipation. If you give it to them immediately, they won't appreciate it as much. By taking something away you make the other person want it more.

I bet that if you walk away at the moment a girl wants you the most, that'll drive them CRAZY!! :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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also known as the hot and cold technique.

leaves victim in unfulfilled highly emotional state, may lead to infatuation.
 

TheMale

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that's exactly what i did last thursday night with a chick.

here's the situation:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=192677

long short story, we danced, we were close, our faces was really close (saw in her face this expression of 'i wanna kiss you'), and after a minute i just leaned back and told her i'm gonna take some water.
when i came back she was more receptive and more hot !

i'm also doing that at work (i'm helping people that are interesting in studying to find which studies will fit them the best)
but i always telling them: 'listen it's not obvious that we are taking you, we need to check your motivation and your skills to that study'
and they are always trying to prove themselves to me to be accepted !
 
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