"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey I was just watching Caesar Milan and he was trying to help a dog that refused to eat.

What he did, when he finally got the dog curious about the food, he took it away, so as to leave the brain in that state of "I want more".

I'm thinking that when you get a girl very very interested in you, it's best to walk away at the moment they want you the most.

It's like with a child, if the child says: "I want to go to the zoo!", and you agree but tell the child he has to wait a month, the child will be much more excited by the time he gets to the zoo, because he's had time to build up anticipation. If you give it to them immediately, they won't appreciate it as much. By taking something away you make the other person want it more.

I bet that if you walk away at the moment a girl wants you the most, that'll drive them CRAZY!! :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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also known as the hot and cold technique.

leaves victim in unfulfilled highly emotional state, may lead to infatuation.
 
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that's exactly what i did last thursday night with a chick.

here's the situation:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=192677

long short story, we danced, we were close, our faces was really close (saw in her face this expression of 'i wanna kiss you'), and after a minute i just leaned back and told her i'm gonna take some water.
when i came back she was more receptive and more hot !

i'm also doing that at work (i'm helping people that are interesting in studying to find which studies will fit them the best)
but i always telling them: 'listen it's not obvious that we are taking you, we need to check your motivation and your skills to that study'
and they are always trying to prove themselves to me to be accepted !
 
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