She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nothing. Tell her to enjoy her singlehood. Women like her are narcisstic. "I dont want to get hurt" translates to "you arent a combination of Bo Jackson and Donald Trump, so get lost."progressive1 said:I met a chick a few days ago. scale 1-10, shes an 8. I ask her y she is single she tells me she doesnt want to get hurt. She also tells me she's single because she wants to be. Whut is a good comeback for that. I appreciate the help
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
no,i do not think that is true.JackPrescott said:Nothing. Tell her to enjoy her singlehood. Women like her are narcisstic. "I dont want to get hurt" translates to "you arent a combination of Bo Jackson and Donald Trump, so get lost."
again with this,you are beggin her in a technical sense.you are trying to weasel your way into her life.Rumpelstiltskin said:Tell her that if she is alone then no one would be there to heal her wound(s).
I've been hearing a lot of enlightened sayings today. This is one of them.whyme2008 said:i think these are just ideas guys pump into their minds.lets be realistic.i know many women who are like that.and this retreat from pursuin relationships is really a "shell" to protect the ego.
love never gets hurt,its ego that is hurt.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nighthawk said:"It'll only hurt a little bit."
You could try telling her not to be such a pussy... but really she's telling you she doesn't find you attractive so Next.
She is just making a statement about being single. What kind of comeback did you expect us to give you? "Girlfriend, you don't know what you are saying because I'm God's gift to women!"progressive1 said:I met a chick a few days ago. scale 1-10, shes an 8. I ask her y she is single she tells me she doesnt want to get hurt. She also tells me she's single because she wants to be. Whut is a good comeback for that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This one made me laugh. Do it lightheartedly with a smile.Nighthawk said:"It'll only hurt a little bit."
SHE IS LETTING YOU KNOW THAT SHE DOESN NOT CONSIDER YOU relationship material... but if you chase long enough you might get to f her...progressive1 said:SHe agreed to go to the zoo wit me on a date. She even brought it up that we should hang out.