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Doesn't say 'I love you' anymore.

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She used to close IM sessions, phone calls w/ 'I love you' or 'Love you' etc.

Now, she no longer says it, and I don't say it.

I know this is intentional behaviour..it's not like she's forgetting.

As far as I know, the relationship is going good.

Is this a sign that she's losing interest? Is she 'testing' me to see if I say it?

Why would she suddenly just stop?
 

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You say that you don't say it but you wonder why she won't say it? Maybe she is waiting for you to say it some. Who knows why she doesn't say it any more.


Try saying " I love you" you to her sometimes and see how she responds. If she is happy to hear you say it more, maybe she just needed you to take the initiative sometimes. If her response doesn't sound very enthusiastic, maybe there are problems in your relationship that needs to be repaired but come on, dude. You are asking a bunch of guys you don't really know why your GF won't say "I love You" anymore. How in the world are we supposed to know the answer to that?
 
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That's how it started with my ex...

Slowly, the affection was withdrawn... The terms of endearment are with drawn or become fewer and fewer...

In my situation, we just lost interest in each other. When It get's low enough, she (or even you) starts looking for some strange...

If you want to keep it going, you got to crank up the interest level. Either way, it couldn't hurt...
 
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Does she ever ask you why you never reciprocate?

Either she doesn't get the same vibe that you love her and she feels like a fool being in an one-sided 'love' affair, or she is seeing another dude!!
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Does she ever ask you why you never reciprocate?

Either she doesn't get the same vibe that you love her and she feels like a fool being in an one-sided 'love' affair, or she is seeing another dude!!
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When women get upset at guys it isn't always another guy.

Be more intimate with her without saying it and see if she is mroe intimate back....if you keep doing this it will be silly cause you will both know you love each other then one day one of you will slip and it will be back in the open.
 
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