"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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doesn't like ****y guys

immrtlwun

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I met this girl the other day HB-8. I started using the C&F routine and she started to lose interest. She says that she doesn't like ****y guys. I basically dropped the ****y, and turned up the funny and she bought it all.

For example.
HER- What do you look for in a girl?
ME- Physically, she has to be tall, have a nice ass, a good smile, and beautiful eyes.
HER- How many of those do I qualify for?
ME- Well, I haven't seen you smile much, so 3.

Needless to say she smiled at that one. I got her number, but later found out that she lives in St. Louis (4 hours away) so now we only talk on AIM.

But anyway, what are your opinions on girls that don't like the ****y part of your routine?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anomalous

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OK, EVERY GIRL LIKES THE C+F ROUTINE. The problem here was that when you used ****y, it wasn't funny.
 

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Saying EVERY girl likes C&F is like saying every girl is hot. Some girls just arn't into it. You really think that C&F is perfect for the whole world?
 

08aisaac

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This is true. Not every girl goes for C & F. Lots of girls that I would actually date, not just hook up with because they have personality, well they aren't into C & F.
 

DJ_in_making

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come on, how many times do girls say they don't like something but they really do? You used a c+f on her and she liked it. Who gives a crap what they actually say, in Pook's '********' he actually tells you not to take half the stuff a girl says seriously.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Adakkon

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I think every girl does love C + F.

Look at this site, all we do is talk about methods which have been found to naturally attract women for some reason or another.

I think it's just what the other guy said. You were probably just ****y and not funny.

Different women have somewhat different humors. I imagine it's hard to get it right even for the pros, and it is sure damn harder to pull off then people on here make it seem.

I think you are either being too ****y and not enough funny, or not funny at all. Thats my 2 cents.
 

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c+f is a very basic foolproof way to talk to girls, just need to find the right balance, I find if she's a bit 'highclass" as we call it here, you know when they're hot and know it and not very open or willing to be different, (very bad explanation, it's early, but I hope you get it), ****y works better, with down to earth girls, turn up the funny. That works for me.
 

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Originally posted by MrS
c+f is a very basic foolproof way to talk to girls, just need to find the right balance, I find if she's a bit 'highclass" as we call it here, you know when they're hot and know it and not very open or willing to be different, (very bad explanation, it's early, but I hope you get it), ****y works better, with down to earth girls, turn up the funny. That works for me.
i agree completly, find the right balance for every situation
 
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