"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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doesn't like ****y guys

immrtlwun

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I met this girl the other day HB-8. I started using the C&F routine and she started to lose interest. She says that she doesn't like ****y guys. I basically dropped the ****y, and turned up the funny and she bought it all.

For example.
HER- What do you look for in a girl?
ME- Physically, she has to be tall, have a nice ass, a good smile, and beautiful eyes.
HER- How many of those do I qualify for?
ME- Well, I haven't seen you smile much, so 3.

Needless to say she smiled at that one. I got her number, but later found out that she lives in St. Louis (4 hours away) so now we only talk on AIM.

But anyway, what are your opinions on girls that don't like the ****y part of your routine?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OK, EVERY GIRL LIKES THE C+F ROUTINE. The problem here was that when you used ****y, it wasn't funny.
 

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Saying EVERY girl likes C&F is like saying every girl is hot. Some girls just arn't into it. You really think that C&F is perfect for the whole world?
 

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This is true. Not every girl goes for C & F. Lots of girls that I would actually date, not just hook up with because they have personality, well they aren't into C & F.
 

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come on, how many times do girls say they don't like something but they really do? You used a c+f on her and she liked it. Who gives a crap what they actually say, in Pook's '********' he actually tells you not to take half the stuff a girl says seriously.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think every girl does love C + F.

Look at this site, all we do is talk about methods which have been found to naturally attract women for some reason or another.

I think it's just what the other guy said. You were probably just ****y and not funny.

Different women have somewhat different humors. I imagine it's hard to get it right even for the pros, and it is sure damn harder to pull off then people on here make it seem.

I think you are either being too ****y and not enough funny, or not funny at all. Thats my 2 cents.
 

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c+f is a very basic foolproof way to talk to girls, just need to find the right balance, I find if she's a bit 'highclass" as we call it here, you know when they're hot and know it and not very open or willing to be different, (very bad explanation, it's early, but I hope you get it), ****y works better, with down to earth girls, turn up the funny. That works for me.
 

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Originally posted by MrS
c+f is a very basic foolproof way to talk to girls, just need to find the right balance, I find if she's a bit 'highclass" as we call it here, you know when they're hot and know it and not very open or willing to be different, (very bad explanation, it's early, but I hope you get it), ****y works better, with down to earth girls, turn up the funny. That works for me.
i agree completly, find the right balance for every situation
 
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