"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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doesn't it really just come down to looks?

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Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
obvioiusly, it all comes down to looks.
Lets say and ugly chick approaches you, but she has goot BL EC and all the other sh!tty abreviations we have. Do you think it really matters? you still aint fvckin her. Its not so much for women, but mostly the same.
Especially if you pick her up in a club, where shes used to getting hit on. If your not great lookin, try mostly picking up in a store/library or sometihng.

this makes no sense, women reason different than men. would you ever marry a fat ugly chick just because she's rich? i don't think so... but lots of ladies marry fat stinky ugly @sses and actually fall in love for them, just because their money gives them confidence...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by salsipuedes
I am good looking, and i can get plenty of dates, trouble is, thats about it, once the girls start to know me, its all down hill from that. I also have several friends that are not as atractive as i am, yet always get girls, and always manage to keep them.

Looks are nothing, trust me, i would trade a little of my looks for some confidence anytime.

same problem here, just that i have confidence too, but i keep saying bullsh1t so that people will notice me... i'm a fùckin loser showman:)
 

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Same here.

Above average/pretty good looks like an 8, intelligent, witty, and good body.

I hear many whipspers of girls thinking Im hot or cute or whatever, but Im not good at picking up signals, so Im oblivious.

Have no game really, confidence fluctuates. Some days Im the man, other days I feel like a loser.

I can now talk to strangers ok. Not scared like I was before, but this doesnt usually lead anywhere. I cant attract girls. I have a boring personality I guess, but thats only to people I just met.

After a couple of convos I open up and let the real me get out. And I think Im pretty interesting, I dunno.


So yeah, looks help, but they arent the only thing.

Guys and girls are wired differently mentally.

Where a guy is looking for the hottest broad to bang, since we have to spread out genes as much as possible, aka doing as many girls as possible, so hot girls helpout since they attract us on the spot.

The girls look for a good overall package to take care of her and her kids. So your great personality and security can make up for a little lack of looks.

Society may try to stop our animal instincts, but they are still alive and kicking.

Were still as animalistic as ever, it's just looked down upon by "society" so we have to supress our feelings.

Because honestly, if it was ok to bang every girl you saw, you would wouldnt you?

An anthropology professor told me that these marriage laws were made u like 1 man to 1 woman because the kings of the ancient civilizations had hundreds of women to bang.

They didnt want the rest of the guys to do them, so they made up laws to stop them, and after thousands of years it has become ingrained in society.
 
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