"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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doesn't it really just come down to looks?

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Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
obvioiusly, it all comes down to looks.
Lets say and ugly chick approaches you, but she has goot BL EC and all the other sh!tty abreviations we have. Do you think it really matters? you still aint fvckin her. Its not so much for women, but mostly the same.
Especially if you pick her up in a club, where shes used to getting hit on. If your not great lookin, try mostly picking up in a store/library or sometihng.

this makes no sense, women reason different than men. would you ever marry a fat ugly chick just because she's rich? i don't think so... but lots of ladies marry fat stinky ugly @sses and actually fall in love for them, just because their money gives them confidence...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by salsipuedes
I am good looking, and i can get plenty of dates, trouble is, thats about it, once the girls start to know me, its all down hill from that. I also have several friends that are not as atractive as i am, yet always get girls, and always manage to keep them.

Looks are nothing, trust me, i would trade a little of my looks for some confidence anytime.

same problem here, just that i have confidence too, but i keep saying bullsh1t so that people will notice me... i'm a fùckin loser showman:)
 

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Same here.

Above average/pretty good looks like an 8, intelligent, witty, and good body.

I hear many whipspers of girls thinking Im hot or cute or whatever, but Im not good at picking up signals, so Im oblivious.

Have no game really, confidence fluctuates. Some days Im the man, other days I feel like a loser.

I can now talk to strangers ok. Not scared like I was before, but this doesnt usually lead anywhere. I cant attract girls. I have a boring personality I guess, but thats only to people I just met.

After a couple of convos I open up and let the real me get out. And I think Im pretty interesting, I dunno.


So yeah, looks help, but they arent the only thing.

Guys and girls are wired differently mentally.

Where a guy is looking for the hottest broad to bang, since we have to spread out genes as much as possible, aka doing as many girls as possible, so hot girls helpout since they attract us on the spot.

The girls look for a good overall package to take care of her and her kids. So your great personality and security can make up for a little lack of looks.

Society may try to stop our animal instincts, but they are still alive and kicking.

Were still as animalistic as ever, it's just looked down upon by "society" so we have to supress our feelings.

Because honestly, if it was ok to bang every girl you saw, you would wouldnt you?

An anthropology professor told me that these marriage laws were made u like 1 man to 1 woman because the kings of the ancient civilizations had hundreds of women to bang.

They didnt want the rest of the guys to do them, so they made up laws to stop them, and after thousands of years it has become ingrained in society.
 
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