"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Doesn't give a !@#$

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612_Da_Playa

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Hey, I was talking to some of the most succesful guys with girls at my school and they said that the biggest thing is to not care. To not let rejection fade you. To go on to the next girl. What do you guys think about that? Has anyone accomplished this? By the way is anyone here in Minnesota?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thats the #1 thing...ITS A MIND GAME. Read the board, its all a mind game and all about not giving a ****. Once you can convince yourself of that, you're good to go. You won't hold yourself from saying stuff and will be an extrovert w/ guy or girl.
 
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I'm from Minnesota. I'm on the cold end of the state though.

Not caring is a good method in my view. When I begin to care, I start to talk too much, which in turn probably can make me annoying around females in a desperate attempt to keep them "entertained".
 
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one thing ive thought on is its a bad thing to ask too many chicks from a particular social group bcos they will start talkin and might start to giv u sh!t

anyone else think likewise?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's 100% true. As soon as you start caring, you have a personal stake in whatever you are doing. If things aren't going exactly as planned, you'll start getting desperate, which only makes things worse.
 
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