"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Doesn't give a !@#$

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612_Da_Playa

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Hey, I was talking to some of the most succesful guys with girls at my school and they said that the biggest thing is to not care. To not let rejection fade you. To go on to the next girl. What do you guys think about that? Has anyone accomplished this? By the way is anyone here in Minnesota?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thats the #1 thing...ITS A MIND GAME. Read the board, its all a mind game and all about not giving a ****. Once you can convince yourself of that, you're good to go. You won't hold yourself from saying stuff and will be an extrovert w/ guy or girl.
 
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I'm from Minnesota. I'm on the cold end of the state though.

Not caring is a good method in my view. When I begin to care, I start to talk too much, which in turn probably can make me annoying around females in a desperate attempt to keep them "entertained".
 
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one thing ive thought on is its a bad thing to ask too many chicks from a particular social group bcos they will start talkin and might start to giv u sh!t

anyone else think likewise?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's 100% true. As soon as you start caring, you have a personal stake in whatever you are doing. If things aren't going exactly as planned, you'll start getting desperate, which only makes things worse.
 
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