"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Doesn't give a !@#$

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612_Da_Playa

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Hey, I was talking to some of the most succesful guys with girls at my school and they said that the biggest thing is to not care. To not let rejection fade you. To go on to the next girl. What do you guys think about that? Has anyone accomplished this? By the way is anyone here in Minnesota?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thats the #1 thing...ITS A MIND GAME. Read the board, its all a mind game and all about not giving a ****. Once you can convince yourself of that, you're good to go. You won't hold yourself from saying stuff and will be an extrovert w/ guy or girl.
 
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I'm from Minnesota. I'm on the cold end of the state though.

Not caring is a good method in my view. When I begin to care, I start to talk too much, which in turn probably can make me annoying around females in a desperate attempt to keep them "entertained".
 
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one thing ive thought on is its a bad thing to ask too many chicks from a particular social group bcos they will start talkin and might start to giv u sh!t

anyone else think likewise?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's 100% true. As soon as you start caring, you have a personal stake in whatever you are doing. If things aren't going exactly as planned, you'll start getting desperate, which only makes things worse.
 
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