"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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so is a woman going to choose a Dave Ramsey millionaire guy with more in savings and driving a old Toyota with a single story ranch house in the sticks or the flashy guy making 300k with a Porsche and nice apartment lol
You know what they are going to do. We won't get credit for driving cash cars and keeping most of our finances.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so is a woman going to choose a Dave Ramsey millionaire guy with more in savings and driving a old Toyota with a single story ranch house in the sticks or the flashy guy making 300k with a Porsche and nice apartment lol
You know what they are going to do. We won't get credit for driving cash cars and keeping most of our finances.
Porsche and nice apartment.
 

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so is a woman going to choose a Dave Ramsey millionaire guy with more in savings and driving a old Toyota with a single story ranch house in the sticks or the flashy guy making 300k with a Porsche and nice apartment lol
MOST will choose the money they SEE.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lamborhinis and other exotica only attract dudes and gold-diggers. And most guys who "own" really nice cars don't actually have money, they're just in debt up to their eyeballs.

If you want to use a car to actually pick up chicks you get a classic car. Jay Leno always says that he gets more interest from women when he's driving a fiat millicento or topolino than when he's driving a mclaren.
 

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I recently purchased a fairly new M3 CP (F80) and have noticed a difference in attention compared to my 7 year old Civic. live in UK.

Granted it's not a supercar, but still has a fair bit of presence compared to run of the mill BMW's, other non exotic marques. It's always been my dream car, so bought it for myself, the performance, look etc.

Several men making 'nice car' comments when filling up with petrol. Men winding down windows at traffic lights and chatting to me about it. Talking to men in the supermarket car park who are into cars etc.

Had several examples of it clearly getting womens attention to; someone let me out at junction and they pulled their glasses down and gawped. Driving out of shops 2 girls in another car coming towards me stared with fm eyes. Woman starring the other night after husband/bf went into takeaway, after I climbed back into mine next to theirs etc.

Think you need to be reasonably attractive, good shape too. If if you're say a 7/8/9 it can give even more of an edge.
 
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Women DO care about your financial status (car, outfit, habitat etc.). They allways are up for the best deal they can get. Thats whats called "hypergamy".
You are correct. It also depends at what stage they are in their life, A 20 year old won’t care, but after 27 or so the caring starts. It all depends what their goal is at that point in their life. Whatever their goal is, they will have to exchange sex for it.

If that’s not prostitution, don’t know what is.

Guys dont give a **** about her car or financial status.
Thats because men think differently than women. They want young and fertile for sex and babies. PhD girl doesn’t matter if the girl is SEXY. That’s why women‘s power is in their sex appeal, not her brains. Take away sex appeal, take away power, they are useless.

Men always know how to act with women who have NO sex appeal. It’s the ones that have SEX appeal where they get confused.

Brutal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A good car DOES help you make a good first impression, but it doesn't guarantee long term success with chicks if you don't have games.
 

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Just another data point. I "own" (fully paid) 8 cars including a couple exotics - semi-exotics. I've only driven my two daily beaters to any of my dates. I've only shown my other cars to LTR's after we've been together some time. But whenever I do drive my nice cars around or to get gas, both women and men strike up a conversation in the parking lot, stoplights, or gas station normally.

I dress nice but when they compliment me, I straight up tell them I buy my clothes at Burlington Coat Factory/Marshalls.

I never tell them that I own my own place and have a couple investment real estate.

Guys that have money, looks, and are confident don't flaunt it or try to use it as an accessory to help them get women. They just use themselves without any props. As others said too, this avoids attracting gold diggers as well.
 

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Jesus........ no point in overdoing it unless you have a smal dyck to compensate for or want to invite golddiggers into your life.

You do NOT need a Porsche or anything like that to get pvssy. You do NOT want to attract golddiggers.

Just have a decent stylish/sportive car where a woman doesnt have to be ashamed to get in and thats it!


f.e. (you can get them used for 15k upwards)

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Jesus........ no point in overdoing it unless you have a smal dyck to compensate for or want to invite golddiggers into your life.

You do NOT need a Porsche or anything like that to get pvssy. You do NOT want to attract golddiggers.

Just have a decent stylish/sportive car where a woman doesnt have to be ashamed to get in and thats it!


f.e. (you can get them used for 15k upwards)

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exactly an average girl can't tell the difference between a 2010 Porsche and a 2020, they just see a Porsche, but if you are going for some Dubai Instagram gold digger than yes you will need the 2021 Porsche lol.
 

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exactly an average girl can't tell the difference between a 2010 Porsche and a 2020, they just see a Porsche, but if you are going for some Dubai Instagram gold digger than yes you will need the 2021 Porsche lol.
A Dubai Instagram girl is worth precisely $0. I hope we all know that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jesus........ no point in overdoing it unless you have a smal dyck to compensate for or want to invite golddiggers into your life.

You do NOT need a Porsche or anything like that to get pvssy. You do NOT want to attract golddiggers.

Just have a decent stylish/sportive car where a woman doesnt have to be ashamed to get in and thats it!


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Can you suggest some makes/models to get used for $15k+ that look sporty enough.

I know this is way more, but I was considering buying a Tesla Model S.

I currently have a 10 year old Nissan Maxima. I would consider it pretty neutral. Definitely not sh1tty, but definitely not a gold diggers dream either.
 

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He just did. BMW 3 series. There are some low mileage 2016-2017 330i xDrive models out there for under $15k.
have at look at engines, bhp if thats your thing. 320 is just under 200bhp, then 330i 230bhpish, then 340i is a 6 cylinder with around 320bhp. get m performance/shadow trim, so it looks sportier, bigger wheels etc. can get any apart from 340i in xdrive (4 wheel drive), but suspension is higher as a result and I can see the difference.

Or go for M3 like I did, nice 440bhp :D. Rear fender, flared wheel arches make it look incredible, real presence to it and sounds immense. Right balance between aggressive, sporty etc without look like something from FastnFurious like a lot of jap performance cars do.

or get audi a4/a5 equivalent, with sline trims. their 4 wheel drive system better than bmw's. or s4/s5 if you want to get into 300bhp territory, 6 cylinder engines.
 
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have at look at engines, bhp if thats your thing. 320 is just under 200bhp, then 330i 230bhpish, then 340i is a 6 cylinder with around 320bhp. get m performance/shadow trim, so it looks sportier, bigger wheels etc. can get any apart from 340i in xdrive (4 wheel drive), but suspension is higher as a result and I can see the difference.

Or go for M3 like I did, nice 440bhp :D. Rear fender, flared wheel arches make it look incredible, real presence to it and sounds immense. Right balance between aggressive, sporty etc without look like something from FastnFurious like a lot of jap performance cars do.

or get audi a4/a5 equivalent, with sline trims. their 4 wheel drive system better than bmw's. or s4/s5 if you want to get into 300bhp territory, 6 cylinder engines.
I can tell you're a bimmer guy like me. LOL
All my BMW cars had Sport package, lowered, wheels, tinted, M tech, at the minimum. Luv Shadowline and hate Chrome. Personally I think you need the 6 TT to provide the tingles for the girls. LOL :up:
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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