"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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does work stress reduce your enthusiasm for sex?

picard

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does work stress reduce your enthusiasm for sex? I can't perform when I am still stress from work related issues.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sodbuster

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YES, remember-survival of the organism is lower and more important on the pyramid than sex.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Sex helps me take my mind off the stress from work.
 

trajhenkhet02

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I would say it would take my mind off things momentarily. Work stress has never effected me in that way. I think if work stress causes emotional stress you may start to have problems.
 

speed dawg

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I have a hard time leaving work at work. I mean, work is how I make my living, it's what gives me an opportunity to live a good life. So yes, when I have legit stresses at work, I feel it in other areas. You have to just keep a positive attitude and everything usually works out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scaramouche

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Dear Picard,
Certainly well documented but in my case the more stress,the more Libido.....I have always rationalised this,in that,our Pre-Deluvian Ancestors possibly confronted with long duration stress,that could involve Death in the not too distant future, had a greater need to make sure that surviving Women were impregnated and could carry on the Genetic Line.
 
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