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does "vibe" matter?

rsaini

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i am not very experienced with all of the venues where people might try picking up girls...like malls, clubs, grocery stores, libraries, etc
So, i was just curious if having a "vibe" that encourages the thought of meeting new people, matters to any extent?
In other words, we can find a different vibe in places like bars as compared to places like grocery stores/open areas like a campus etc. In bars people won't be totally surprised if they get hit on because that vibe is present. Now, does the presence of such a vibe affect your chances of having a successful approach?
Do people (or girls) have different mindsets in different kinds of venues?
 

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All I heard was blahbity blah, hippity bloo blah. No matter where you are, you probably have a chance. No one has the statistics for every venue, but I'd recommend starting where you are most comfortable.

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Rex Man said:
All I heard was blahbity blah, hippity bloo blah. No matter where you are, you probably have a chance. No one has the statistics for every venue, but I'd recommend starting where you are most comfortable.

Da Bears!
that makes sense. I always tend to overthink.
 
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