"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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does turning red make you a whimp?

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All my life I have been told that I blush. But now I feel more confident than ever but I still blush. the thing is when I was in high school I never got girls. I was a shy guy. But now since I have been on this website I feel way confident now then when I was in school. But the thing is since I turn red do girls think I have no confidence whats your guess? also since I do blush does that not make me a dj yet? help me out please?



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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is stupid.

Has a girl personally told you that?

If so fvck the ho!

Most girls think it’s cute anyways.

As long as your not being a goober and a total AFC then who cares.

Blushing or not doesn't make you more or less confident.

Seems like you need to do a whole lot of reading and searching here.
 
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Originally posted by avrilishot
All my life I have been told that I blush. But now I feel more confident than ever but I still blush. the thing is when I was in high school I never got girls. I was a shy guy. But now since I have been on this website I feel way confident now then when I was in school. But the thing is since I turn red do girls think I have no confidence whats your guess? also since I do blush does that not make me a dj yet? help me out please?



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Again....AHAHHAHAH! When will you guys stop posting this nonsense and start posting real Shi*t like how it was when I was a kid....Didnt read your post but! if you think you are a whimp or whatever you were talking about-then it is so? Its your mind man-not the chicks-not your friends or family but you-turn this into a 5 page argument if you want but I know whats real and that is that a lot these posts are fromguys who have problems-Seriously-Not Women in particular-but problems in general-and that is not something that us DJ's can help with-what we do is give each other advice about praticular situations with women-we dont solve traumatic issues...Dont mean to come off as an asshol* but when its due-its ****in* due!....

"Turn fear Into Curiosity"
 
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Hey Man,
That means nothing, I blush heaps, it has nothing to do with me being embarassed it just happens, it is the last thing I would worry about and it is the last thing you should worry about. If some girl does bust on you about it say something like "wow my mum said all ladies were nicely spoken and polite.........I guess your not a lady" make sure you say it in a funny way or it will come off wrong.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I agree, most chicks think it's cool. Maybe even a bit disarming to them, - this can help you!
 
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