"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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does turning red make you a whimp?

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All my life I have been told that I blush. But now I feel more confident than ever but I still blush. the thing is when I was in high school I never got girls. I was a shy guy. But now since I have been on this website I feel way confident now then when I was in school. But the thing is since I turn red do girls think I have no confidence whats your guess? also since I do blush does that not make me a dj yet? help me out please?



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is stupid.

Has a girl personally told you that?

If so fvck the ho!

Most girls think it’s cute anyways.

As long as your not being a goober and a total AFC then who cares.

Blushing or not doesn't make you more or less confident.

Seems like you need to do a whole lot of reading and searching here.
 
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Originally posted by avrilishot
All my life I have been told that I blush. But now I feel more confident than ever but I still blush. the thing is when I was in high school I never got girls. I was a shy guy. But now since I have been on this website I feel way confident now then when I was in school. But the thing is since I turn red do girls think I have no confidence whats your guess? also since I do blush does that not make me a dj yet? help me out please?



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Again....AHAHHAHAH! When will you guys stop posting this nonsense and start posting real Shi*t like how it was when I was a kid....Didnt read your post but! if you think you are a whimp or whatever you were talking about-then it is so? Its your mind man-not the chicks-not your friends or family but you-turn this into a 5 page argument if you want but I know whats real and that is that a lot these posts are fromguys who have problems-Seriously-Not Women in particular-but problems in general-and that is not something that us DJ's can help with-what we do is give each other advice about praticular situations with women-we dont solve traumatic issues...Dont mean to come off as an asshol* but when its due-its ****in* due!....

"Turn fear Into Curiosity"
 
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Hey Man,
That means nothing, I blush heaps, it has nothing to do with me being embarassed it just happens, it is the last thing I would worry about and it is the last thing you should worry about. If some girl does bust on you about it say something like "wow my mum said all ladies were nicely spoken and polite.........I guess your not a lady" make sure you say it in a funny way or it will come off wrong.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I agree, most chicks think it's cool. Maybe even a bit disarming to them, - this can help you!
 
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