"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does touching mean anything when it comes to flirting?

Siragoos

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I'm starting to think that any "sign" from a woman shouldn't be construed as anything positive or negative.

For instance, a HB was rubbing my face with her hands and running her fingers through my hair. however it was it seemed that she was just demonstrating that she could do that and I was letting her. Once I realized I was letting her do what she wanted I then said "hands off the merchandise" for some push/pull.

I'm feeling like a lot of signals like this is just women doing it because they can.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2

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with a normal girl, touching means a lot

if you're deeply friend zoned, dealing with an extremely touchy-feely person, an AW, etc. then it means far less
 

VladPatton

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Well she definitely isn't repulsed by you. You just have to ask for a date at that point, or at least grab some digits. Otherwise, it's just temporary fun and games.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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RedZone

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It could really go either way. Recently, I was hanging with a girl from work and she was touching my arm and running her hand through my hair. When I texted her though to hang solo she never even responded back.

Honestly, what I learned is if you feel you have IOIs you just have to go for it. The worst possible thing that can happen is you get no response and that isn't even so bad.
 
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