"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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does this work?

Deadly_Assassin

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"One sure way to make a girl like you is to go after her best friend. She will then see what she's missing and love you for not giving up on her."


has anyone tried it? I had a mate who liked this chick and asked her out. She gave him the " I am not ready for a relationship" line. He moved on and got with her best mate. As soon as the best mate went overseas the old girl jumped my mate. Now hes banging her silly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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arutha

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Well yeah, its all about making her jealous.. Of course it works. The problem is if you aren't good enough to get the first one, then how are you going to be good enough to get the second?

And I'm not completely sure, but I think there are a lot of girls who would stay away from their best friend's guy.. Although they will be gossiping about you and going on about you, which helps a lot.

Anyway, its the jealousy thing. Start getting with any others and show them a good time while the first notices, and she'll want you more.
 

MidnightResistance

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Women are a lot more competitive than men are.
 
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