"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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does this work?

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Deadly_Assassin

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"One sure way to make a girl like you is to go after her best friend. She will then see what she's missing and love you for not giving up on her."


has anyone tried it? I had a mate who liked this chick and asked her out. She gave him the " I am not ready for a relationship" line. He moved on and got with her best mate. As soon as the best mate went overseas the old girl jumped my mate. Now hes banging her silly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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arutha

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Well yeah, its all about making her jealous.. Of course it works. The problem is if you aren't good enough to get the first one, then how are you going to be good enough to get the second?

And I'm not completely sure, but I think there are a lot of girls who would stay away from their best friend's guy.. Although they will be gossiping about you and going on about you, which helps a lot.

Anyway, its the jealousy thing. Start getting with any others and show them a good time while the first notices, and she'll want you more.
 
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Women are a lot more competitive than men are.
 
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