"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does this sound like BPD to you?

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1. Mother abandoned her when she was 3..rejoined her when she was 9
2. Supposedely raped when she was 6 by brother.
3. Abandoned guy one day when she was living with him for over 3 years. She was 22 he was 34.
4. Multiple partners history. Claims some sexually assaulted her.
5. Very good at sex
6. Bi-sexual
7. Cheated on hubbie after been married for year
8. No job.
9. Does soft drugs.
10. HB8+
11. Can bend over backwards for you at honeymoon phase but after that treats you with contempt
12. Liar/Scheming . ie hacks into email to see if YOU are cheating.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheMonkeyKing

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PD or no PD... most of that sounds like a pretty standard 21stC woman.
 

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Not enough information. Does she go through cyclical periods of depression? One week she's great.. the next week she's curled up in a fetal position on her bed for days?
 

BrainDamage92

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Dude.

Dude.

Dude.

Listen to me very very carefully.

If you ever, ever, ever, even for 1 second, doubt that the girl may have serious emotional invalidity she is masking, even for 1 second.

Run.

Bale out man. Your gut is there for a reason - listen to it. Dont be fooled with nice sex and poisonous words.

Dude I was with this BPDNPDWhateverThe****PD emotinally invalid girl for 2 year she had the most ****ed up family possible - hardcore criminal father who uses her as a tool and who shes in love with (lol) and an ole ***** for a mom (she plays it serious respectable lady tho lol)...

But ye - model body, angel face, devils eyes, chicken brain - what more could I ask for... oh wait... let me think about it... A ***** THAT IS NOT BAT**** CRAZY MAYBE???

Her ex was a trainwreck. She blamed it on him ofc. At one point I was like "Hmmmmm wait a minute something tells me story is about to repeat itslef..." That reflex on top of all the disrespectfull behaviours already showing up harder and harder. Stuff that just doesnt add up. Abnormal behaviours, reactions, I mean ****...

Packed my bags, went on the morning train - RELIEF!!!! But then the void sucked me in. Later found lots of info on crazy women couse I was pretty ****ed up from the toxic sludge brainwash myself. I dont even want to think it over anymore.

Point is. Bro... bro... believe me... bro... you need to get this person out of your life. COMPLETELY. NO CONTACT. UNTIL THERE IS ANY FORM OF CONTACT THE TOXICITY CANT BE WASHED OFF. Bro... believe me.

Go to gettinbetter.com and read the articles conserning your complexes very carefully the woman who runs the site is very wise

Just think about life alot and why you attract girls like this. Look at your mother and the way she bahves and think...

AND DONT ****ING GET RELATED TO PEOPLE WHOS FAMILY SEEMS MORE ****ED UP THAN YOURS FOR ****S SAKE IT MAY SEEM HARSH BUT ITS TRUE
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tictac said:
Why do you need a label (BPD)?

This chick is either worth it to you or she isn't.

She sounds like she isn't.
This^

Guys read wayyyyyy too much into "this personality disorder" or "that personality disorder". Either she is worth your time or she is not. If you even begin to have doubts....most likely she is not worth it.

You WILL KNOW a high quality woman when you date one. They stand out like a cloud in a blue sky.
 

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Anyone who is currently on drugs is bad news, regardless of the other warning signs you've mentioned.
 
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