"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does this sound like BPD to you?

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1. Mother abandoned her when she was 3..rejoined her when she was 9
2. Supposedely raped when she was 6 by brother.
3. Abandoned guy one day when she was living with him for over 3 years. She was 22 he was 34.
4. Multiple partners history. Claims some sexually assaulted her.
5. Very good at sex
6. Bi-sexual
7. Cheated on hubbie after been married for year
8. No job.
9. Does soft drugs.
10. HB8+
11. Can bend over backwards for you at honeymoon phase but after that treats you with contempt
12. Liar/Scheming . ie hacks into email to see if YOU are cheating.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PD or no PD... most of that sounds like a pretty standard 21stC woman.
 
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Not enough information. Does she go through cyclical periods of depression? One week she's great.. the next week she's curled up in a fetal position on her bed for days?
 
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Dude.

Dude.

Dude.

Listen to me very very carefully.

If you ever, ever, ever, even for 1 second, doubt that the girl may have serious emotional invalidity she is masking, even for 1 second.

Run.

Bale out man. Your gut is there for a reason - listen to it. Dont be fooled with nice sex and poisonous words.

Dude I was with this BPDNPDWhateverThe****PD emotinally invalid girl for 2 year she had the most ****ed up family possible - hardcore criminal father who uses her as a tool and who shes in love with (lol) and an ole ***** for a mom (she plays it serious respectable lady tho lol)...

But ye - model body, angel face, devils eyes, chicken brain - what more could I ask for... oh wait... let me think about it... A ***** THAT IS NOT BAT**** CRAZY MAYBE???

Her ex was a trainwreck. She blamed it on him ofc. At one point I was like "Hmmmmm wait a minute something tells me story is about to repeat itslef..." That reflex on top of all the disrespectfull behaviours already showing up harder and harder. Stuff that just doesnt add up. Abnormal behaviours, reactions, I mean ****...

Packed my bags, went on the morning train - RELIEF!!!! But then the void sucked me in. Later found lots of info on crazy women couse I was pretty ****ed up from the toxic sludge brainwash myself. I dont even want to think it over anymore.

Point is. Bro... bro... believe me... bro... you need to get this person out of your life. COMPLETELY. NO CONTACT. UNTIL THERE IS ANY FORM OF CONTACT THE TOXICITY CANT BE WASHED OFF. Bro... believe me.

Go to gettinbetter.com and read the articles conserning your complexes very carefully the woman who runs the site is very wise

Just think about life alot and why you attract girls like this. Look at your mother and the way she bahves and think...

AND DONT ****ING GET RELATED TO PEOPLE WHOS FAMILY SEEMS MORE ****ED UP THAN YOURS FOR ****S SAKE IT MAY SEEM HARSH BUT ITS TRUE
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tictac said:
Why do you need a label (BPD)?

This chick is either worth it to you or she isn't.

She sounds like she isn't.
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This^

Guys read wayyyyyy too much into "this personality disorder" or "that personality disorder". Either she is worth your time or she is not. If you even begin to have doubts....most likely she is not worth it.

You WILL KNOW a high quality woman when you date one. They stand out like a cloud in a blue sky.
 
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Anyone who is currently on drugs is bad news, regardless of the other warning signs you've mentioned.
 
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