SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
@In2thegame brilliant post!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Does this site cause paranoia and insecurity?
- Thread starter Jariel
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
OP, sites like these draw nutty guys already. The guys often have no social skills or have been recently treated poorly by a woman. How else are they going to find a site like this in the first place?
But, when guys post about a specific situation where a woman is treating them in a questionable manner, 9 times out of 10 it means the chick is no longer interested.
No guy is going to post something like "Hey guys, my girlfriend and I had the best sex last night, she made me breakfast this morning and now we're going to the beach to hang out and then go see a movie. Is anything wrong?" Nobody has good interactions and then posts here asking for input. It's always bad interactions. So the negative responses are usually justified.
But, when guys post about a specific situation where a woman is treating them in a questionable manner, 9 times out of 10 it means the chick is no longer interested.
No guy is going to post something like "Hey guys, my girlfriend and I had the best sex last night, she made me breakfast this morning and now we're going to the beach to hang out and then go see a movie. Is anything wrong?" Nobody has good interactions and then posts here asking for input. It's always bad interactions. So the negative responses are usually justified.