SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
@In2thegame brilliant post!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Does this site cause paranoia and insecurity?
- Thread starter Jariel
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
OP, sites like these draw nutty guys already. The guys often have no social skills or have been recently treated poorly by a woman. How else are they going to find a site like this in the first place?
But, when guys post about a specific situation where a woman is treating them in a questionable manner, 9 times out of 10 it means the chick is no longer interested.
No guy is going to post something like "Hey guys, my girlfriend and I had the best sex last night, she made me breakfast this morning and now we're going to the beach to hang out and then go see a movie. Is anything wrong?" Nobody has good interactions and then posts here asking for input. It's always bad interactions. So the negative responses are usually justified.
But, when guys post about a specific situation where a woman is treating them in a questionable manner, 9 times out of 10 it means the chick is no longer interested.
No guy is going to post something like "Hey guys, my girlfriend and I had the best sex last night, she made me breakfast this morning and now we're going to the beach to hang out and then go see a movie. Is anything wrong?" Nobody has good interactions and then posts here asking for input. It's always bad interactions. So the negative responses are usually justified.