SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
@In2thegame brilliant post!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Does this site cause paranoia and insecurity?
- Thread starter Jariel
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
OP, sites like these draw nutty guys already. The guys often have no social skills or have been recently treated poorly by a woman. How else are they going to find a site like this in the first place?
But, when guys post about a specific situation where a woman is treating them in a questionable manner, 9 times out of 10 it means the chick is no longer interested.
No guy is going to post something like "Hey guys, my girlfriend and I had the best sex last night, she made me breakfast this morning and now we're going to the beach to hang out and then go see a movie. Is anything wrong?" Nobody has good interactions and then posts here asking for input. It's always bad interactions. So the negative responses are usually justified.
But, when guys post about a specific situation where a woman is treating them in a questionable manner, 9 times out of 10 it means the chick is no longer interested.
No guy is going to post something like "Hey guys, my girlfriend and I had the best sex last night, she made me breakfast this morning and now we're going to the beach to hang out and then go see a movie. Is anything wrong?" Nobody has good interactions and then posts here asking for input. It's always bad interactions. So the negative responses are usually justified.