"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Does this mean sex?

DJinTraining06

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If a girl invites u over after a 5 hr date, does it always mean she wants sex or at least something sexual? She's 26. I would assume at her age inviting a guy over would mean at least somethin physical ya know? I'll never know now, cuz i had to turn this girl down the other night. I had a very important class early in the morning and had to prioritize. But i wonder. Cuz i tried callin her a couple days later and she hasnt called back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ValleyDJing

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Let me get this straight, you went out on a date for like practically half the day, then she invites you in? Dude, you didn't have to spend the night, you should have hit that. Tell her, I got a super important class in the morning, but I can come in for a little bit. Bam. Believe me, I've operated on very very little sleep just fine. As a matter of fact, I feel great right now and I'm running on about 2 hours of shut eye.
 

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Unless this class was 'win the lottery in 2 tries 101' you should have sealed the deal. You can go on a date for 5 hrs but not have sex for 5 min??? Bullsh!t.

There is another factor involved. You were prolly nervous. Ah well, back to tig ol' bitties.com for you!
 

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Docs said:
Did you just double post? I swear I just read the same damn thing 3 minutes ago.
You seen Denzel's new one? Deja Vu? Pretty sick s.hit! :rockon:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJinTraining06

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Rex Man said:
Unless this class was 'win the lottery in 2 tries 101' you should have sealed the deal. You can go on a date for 5 hrs but not have sex for 5 min??? Bullsh!t.

There is another factor involved. You were prolly nervous. Ah well, back to tig ol' bitties.com for you!

not at all, i was dying to go, i just knew id have know way to get home but a 75 dollar cab ride and this class was mega important had a test. its for my job.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
Let me get this straight, you went out on a date for like practically half the day, then she invites you in? Dude, you didn't have to spend the night, you should have hit that. Tell her, I got a super important class in the morning, but I can come in for a little bit. Bam. Believe me, I've operated on very very little sleep just fine. As a matter of fact, I feel great right now and I'm running on about 2 hours of shut eye.

Its just where it was that made it ridiculous, it was a thurs night, i had a very importnant class for my job the next day and needed to be fresh for it, at least functioning ya know. And the thign is the trains run like once an hr at that hr. i wouldnt be leaving her house till like 2, and if i didnt get back to my station for the train by the 3 train id have to wait for the 4 one, and woudl be home at 5. so not worht it. Either that or a 75 dollar cab ride. She woulda though i was a loswer for spending that mcuh.
 

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she didnt return my call i am so pissed bou tthis. but i woulda prob done the same thing over again. I can always get laid again (godamm she was hot) but this is gonan be my job for the next 30 yrs god willing, i priorotized, cuz i cant fvck this up.
 

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Ummm

Yeah, it meant sex... although you might have had a few more hoops thrown your way to jump thru.

Don't be too desperate to get in contact again. Play it cool. Persist. You'll get another chance. If she asks why you didn't do her last time say you wanted to make sure you had enough time to do it properly for your first time together.

JJ
 
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