"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does this mean sex?

DJinTraining06

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If a girl invites u over after a 5 hr date, does it always mean she wants sex or at least something sexual? She's 26. I would assume at her age inviting a guy over would mean at least somethin physical ya know? I'll never know now, cuz i had to turn this girl down the other night. I had a very important class early in the morning and had to prioritize. But i wonder. Cuz i tried callin her a couple days later and she hasnt called back.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ValleyDJing

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Let me get this straight, you went out on a date for like practically half the day, then she invites you in? Dude, you didn't have to spend the night, you should have hit that. Tell her, I got a super important class in the morning, but I can come in for a little bit. Bam. Believe me, I've operated on very very little sleep just fine. As a matter of fact, I feel great right now and I'm running on about 2 hours of shut eye.
 

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Unless this class was 'win the lottery in 2 tries 101' you should have sealed the deal. You can go on a date for 5 hrs but not have sex for 5 min??? Bullsh!t.

There is another factor involved. You were prolly nervous. Ah well, back to tig ol' bitties.com for you!
 

ValleyDJing

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Docs said:
Did you just double post? I swear I just read the same damn thing 3 minutes ago.
You seen Denzel's new one? Deja Vu? Pretty sick s.hit! :rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJinTraining06

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Rex Man said:
Unless this class was 'win the lottery in 2 tries 101' you should have sealed the deal. You can go on a date for 5 hrs but not have sex for 5 min??? Bullsh!t.

There is another factor involved. You were prolly nervous. Ah well, back to tig ol' bitties.com for you!

not at all, i was dying to go, i just knew id have know way to get home but a 75 dollar cab ride and this class was mega important had a test. its for my job.
 

DJinTraining06

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ValleyDJing said:
Let me get this straight, you went out on a date for like practically half the day, then she invites you in? Dude, you didn't have to spend the night, you should have hit that. Tell her, I got a super important class in the morning, but I can come in for a little bit. Bam. Believe me, I've operated on very very little sleep just fine. As a matter of fact, I feel great right now and I'm running on about 2 hours of shut eye.

Its just where it was that made it ridiculous, it was a thurs night, i had a very importnant class for my job the next day and needed to be fresh for it, at least functioning ya know. And the thign is the trains run like once an hr at that hr. i wouldnt be leaving her house till like 2, and if i didnt get back to my station for the train by the 3 train id have to wait for the 4 one, and woudl be home at 5. so not worht it. Either that or a 75 dollar cab ride. She woulda though i was a loswer for spending that mcuh.
 

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she didnt return my call i am so pissed bou tthis. but i woulda prob done the same thing over again. I can always get laid again (godamm she was hot) but this is gonan be my job for the next 30 yrs god willing, i priorotized, cuz i cant fvck this up.
 

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Ummm

Yeah, it meant sex... although you might have had a few more hoops thrown your way to jump thru.

Don't be too desperate to get in contact again. Play it cool. Persist. You'll get another chance. If she asks why you didn't do her last time say you wanted to make sure you had enough time to do it properly for your first time together.

JJ
 
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