"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does this mean anything?

jizzlobber

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Does it mean anything when a chick taps you a lot on the shoulder or arm to get your attention and then hits you whenever you tell a joke?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Intheirheads

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tapping the shoulder is nothing but I think that the hitting of your arm is a sign of flirting- does she do anythign else?
 

SamePendo

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Do you really want to know?

Wouldn't you rather be wacking off, or being on a date, or whatever, rather than thinking about wheter it means something or not?

I recommend you to read the bible
again. Slowly, absorbing ALL the material. And reading stuff outside the bible too.

By the way, it means she is comfortable with touching you. Touch her too, touche her more *kino*. What does her being comfortable touching you? It means you are in the right lane. Keep it going! :cool:
 

jizzlobber

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re:

She doesnt do anything else but my friend went on a couple of dates with her and said she wasnt the touchy feely type which surprised me since lately shes been touching me quite a bit. Then again he was an AFC who bought her gifts and expensive dinners. He called her every day. We all work at the same company so its kind of wierd.
 

skinnydart

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That just means she's into you more than your friend. Pat yourself on the back and go ask her out again. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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biker_gixxer

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It's her way of being flirty with you. If you want to know her true intentions, flirt back, take it up a notch, see how she responds. You have to realize that just because she's throwing Kino at ya, it doesn't mean she's 'interested'. Some girls enjoy the 'friendly flirting' thing (email me for more on this).
 
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