"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does this mean anything?

jizzlobber

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Does it mean anything when a chick taps you a lot on the shoulder or arm to get your attention and then hits you whenever you tell a joke?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Intheirheads

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tapping the shoulder is nothing but I think that the hitting of your arm is a sign of flirting- does she do anythign else?
 

SamePendo

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Do you really want to know?

Wouldn't you rather be wacking off, or being on a date, or whatever, rather than thinking about wheter it means something or not?

I recommend you to read the bible
again. Slowly, absorbing ALL the material. And reading stuff outside the bible too.

By the way, it means she is comfortable with touching you. Touch her too, touche her more *kino*. What does her being comfortable touching you? It means you are in the right lane. Keep it going! :cool:
 

jizzlobber

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re:

She doesnt do anything else but my friend went on a couple of dates with her and said she wasnt the touchy feely type which surprised me since lately shes been touching me quite a bit. Then again he was an AFC who bought her gifts and expensive dinners. He called her every day. We all work at the same company so its kind of wierd.
 

skinnydart

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That just means she's into you more than your friend. Pat yourself on the back and go ask her out again. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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biker_gixxer

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It's her way of being flirty with you. If you want to know her true intentions, flirt back, take it up a notch, see how she responds. You have to realize that just because she's throwing Kino at ya, it doesn't mean she's 'interested'. Some girls enjoy the 'friendly flirting' thing (email me for more on this).
 
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