"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does this mean anything?

jizzlobber

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Does it mean anything when a chick taps you a lot on the shoulder or arm to get your attention and then hits you whenever you tell a joke?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Intheirheads

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tapping the shoulder is nothing but I think that the hitting of your arm is a sign of flirting- does she do anythign else?
 

SamePendo

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Do you really want to know?

Wouldn't you rather be wacking off, or being on a date, or whatever, rather than thinking about wheter it means something or not?

I recommend you to read the bible
again. Slowly, absorbing ALL the material. And reading stuff outside the bible too.

By the way, it means she is comfortable with touching you. Touch her too, touche her more *kino*. What does her being comfortable touching you? It means you are in the right lane. Keep it going! :cool:
 

jizzlobber

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re:

She doesnt do anything else but my friend went on a couple of dates with her and said she wasnt the touchy feely type which surprised me since lately shes been touching me quite a bit. Then again he was an AFC who bought her gifts and expensive dinners. He called her every day. We all work at the same company so its kind of wierd.
 

skinnydart

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That just means she's into you more than your friend. Pat yourself on the back and go ask her out again. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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biker_gixxer

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It's her way of being flirty with you. If you want to know her true intentions, flirt back, take it up a notch, see how she responds. You have to realize that just because she's throwing Kino at ya, it doesn't mean she's 'interested'. Some girls enjoy the 'friendly flirting' thing (email me for more on this).
 
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