does it matter how you great/treat/interact with random men (not women) who maybe take your order at a pizza shop or fast food place or something like that? does it really matter if you are friendly or dominating or whatever or not? obviously you're not trying to pick them up but does it matter?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
does this matter or not?
- Thread starter J S Az
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Yeah, try saying something like "yeah, I'd like to order 1 large sausage for here please". Say that and you'll have your babe all over you!
O wait, I forget, they don't give a damn about how you order for pizza, as long as you act halfway normal.
On a more serious note...
Don't be to friendly with them, chicks don't like gay guys for dates.
O wait, I forget, they don't give a damn about how you order for pizza, as long as you act halfway normal.
On a more serious note...
Don't be to friendly with them, chicks don't like gay guys for dates.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
there is a thread about mistakes in the archive
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18379
whoops wud u belive i posted this in the wrong thread whilst going to get the link
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18379
whoops wud u belive i posted this in the wrong thread whilst going to get the link
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Why isn't this in the high school forum? Does it matter? Off course it matters. Don't be a prik to anybody, specially to try to impress any chick. The act of changing yourself to seek someone's approval is so gay and unattractive.
Always be nice to servers and be nice to other guys, unless you want a big green booger to appear on your food order, or a fist on your throat. If you feel the need to be a prik to other guys, you really come across as insecure. She will see you as overcompensating for other short comings. If you are naturally ****y, you being nice to guys will help you, because she will realize that you are not a total dik to people. You don't treat men and women the same, for obvious reasons.
Always tease and be ****y/funny to girls, but be cool with guys, this says so much about you.
Always be nice to servers and be nice to other guys, unless you want a big green booger to appear on your food order, or a fist on your throat. If you feel the need to be a prik to other guys, you really come across as insecure. She will see you as overcompensating for other short comings. If you are naturally ****y, you being nice to guys will help you, because she will realize that you are not a total dik to people. You don't treat men and women the same, for obvious reasons.
Always tease and be ****y/funny to girls, but be cool with guys, this says so much about you.
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so ur saying u cant be funny wit guys? are u homophobic by any chances?Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Why isn't this in the high school forum? Does it matter? Off course it matters. Don't be a prik to anybody, specially to try to impress any chick. The act of changing yourself to seek someone's approval is so gay and unattractive.
Always be nice to servers and be nice to other guys, unless you want a big green booger to appear on your food order, or a fist on your throat. If you feel the need to be a prik to other guys, you really come across as insecure. She will see you as overcompensating for other short comings. If you are naturally ****y, you being nice to guys will help you, because she will realize that you are not a total dik to people. You don't treat men and women the same, for obvious reasons.
Always tease and be ****y/funny to girls, but be cool with guys, this says so much about you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just act however you want to act with guys, and apply the DJ principles on women, because that's what your goal is. Once you have that shìt integrated into your personality, you'll be acting funny with everyone and not noticing it.Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
so ur saying u cant be funny wit guys? are u homophobic by any chances?
So to answer the thread's subject... NO IT DOESN'T!!!!!!!
squirrels
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Beyond a demonstration of basic social skills, no it really doesn't matter. But acting like an ass to people in ANY situation is bad basic social skills.