does it matter how you great/treat/interact with random men (not women) who maybe take your order at a pizza shop or fast food place or something like that? does it really matter if you are friendly or dominating or whatever or not? obviously you're not trying to pick them up but does it matter?
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does this matter or not?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Yeah, try saying something like "yeah, I'd like to order 1 large sausage for here please". Say that and you'll have your babe all over you!
O wait, I forget, they don't give a damn about how you order for pizza, as long as you act halfway normal.
On a more serious note...
Don't be to friendly with them, chicks don't like gay guys for dates.
O wait, I forget, they don't give a damn about how you order for pizza, as long as you act halfway normal.
On a more serious note...
Don't be to friendly with them, chicks don't like gay guys for dates.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
there is a thread about mistakes in the archive
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18379
whoops wud u belive i posted this in the wrong thread whilst going to get the link
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18379
whoops wud u belive i posted this in the wrong thread whilst going to get the link
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Why isn't this in the high school forum? Does it matter? Off course it matters. Don't be a prik to anybody, specially to try to impress any chick. The act of changing yourself to seek someone's approval is so gay and unattractive.
Always be nice to servers and be nice to other guys, unless you want a big green booger to appear on your food order, or a fist on your throat. If you feel the need to be a prik to other guys, you really come across as insecure. She will see you as overcompensating for other short comings. If you are naturally ****y, you being nice to guys will help you, because she will realize that you are not a total dik to people. You don't treat men and women the same, for obvious reasons.
Always tease and be ****y/funny to girls, but be cool with guys, this says so much about you.
Always be nice to servers and be nice to other guys, unless you want a big green booger to appear on your food order, or a fist on your throat. If you feel the need to be a prik to other guys, you really come across as insecure. She will see you as overcompensating for other short comings. If you are naturally ****y, you being nice to guys will help you, because she will realize that you are not a total dik to people. You don't treat men and women the same, for obvious reasons.
Always tease and be ****y/funny to girls, but be cool with guys, this says so much about you.
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so ur saying u cant be funny wit guys? are u homophobic by any chances?Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Why isn't this in the high school forum? Does it matter? Off course it matters. Don't be a prik to anybody, specially to try to impress any chick. The act of changing yourself to seek someone's approval is so gay and unattractive.
Always be nice to servers and be nice to other guys, unless you want a big green booger to appear on your food order, or a fist on your throat. If you feel the need to be a prik to other guys, you really come across as insecure. She will see you as overcompensating for other short comings. If you are naturally ****y, you being nice to guys will help you, because she will realize that you are not a total dik to people. You don't treat men and women the same, for obvious reasons.
Always tease and be ****y/funny to girls, but be cool with guys, this says so much about you.
Just act however you want to act with guys, and apply the DJ principles on women, because that's what your goal is. Once you have that shìt integrated into your personality, you'll be acting funny with everyone and not noticing it.Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
so ur saying u cant be funny wit guys? are u homophobic by any chances?
So to answer the thread's subject... NO IT DOESN'T!!!!!!!
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Beyond a demonstration of basic social skills, no it really doesn't matter. But acting like an ass to people in ANY situation is bad basic social skills.