does it matter how you great/treat/interact with random men (not women) who maybe take your order at a pizza shop or fast food place or something like that? does it really matter if you are friendly or dominating or whatever or not? obviously you're not trying to pick them up but does it matter?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
does this matter or not?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
Yeah, try saying something like "yeah, I'd like to order 1 large sausage for here please". Say that and you'll have your babe all over you!
O wait, I forget, they don't give a damn about how you order for pizza, as long as you act halfway normal.
On a more serious note...
Don't be to friendly with them, chicks don't like gay guys for dates.
O wait, I forget, they don't give a damn about how you order for pizza, as long as you act halfway normal.
On a more serious note...
Don't be to friendly with them, chicks don't like gay guys for dates.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
there is a thread about mistakes in the archive
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18379
whoops wud u belive i posted this in the wrong thread whilst going to get the link
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18379
whoops wud u belive i posted this in the wrong thread whilst going to get the link
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Why isn't this in the high school forum? Does it matter? Off course it matters. Don't be a prik to anybody, specially to try to impress any chick. The act of changing yourself to seek someone's approval is so gay and unattractive.
Always be nice to servers and be nice to other guys, unless you want a big green booger to appear on your food order, or a fist on your throat. If you feel the need to be a prik to other guys, you really come across as insecure. She will see you as overcompensating for other short comings. If you are naturally ****y, you being nice to guys will help you, because she will realize that you are not a total dik to people. You don't treat men and women the same, for obvious reasons.
Always tease and be ****y/funny to girls, but be cool with guys, this says so much about you.
Always be nice to servers and be nice to other guys, unless you want a big green booger to appear on your food order, or a fist on your throat. If you feel the need to be a prik to other guys, you really come across as insecure. She will see you as overcompensating for other short comings. If you are naturally ****y, you being nice to guys will help you, because she will realize that you are not a total dik to people. You don't treat men and women the same, for obvious reasons.
Always tease and be ****y/funny to girls, but be cool with guys, this says so much about you.
huge_guy_pimpin
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so ur saying u cant be funny wit guys? are u homophobic by any chances?Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Why isn't this in the high school forum? Does it matter? Off course it matters. Don't be a prik to anybody, specially to try to impress any chick. The act of changing yourself to seek someone's approval is so gay and unattractive.
Always be nice to servers and be nice to other guys, unless you want a big green booger to appear on your food order, or a fist on your throat. If you feel the need to be a prik to other guys, you really come across as insecure. She will see you as overcompensating for other short comings. If you are naturally ****y, you being nice to guys will help you, because she will realize that you are not a total dik to people. You don't treat men and women the same, for obvious reasons.
Always tease and be ****y/funny to girls, but be cool with guys, this says so much about you.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Just act however you want to act with guys, and apply the DJ principles on women, because that's what your goal is. Once you have that shìt integrated into your personality, you'll be acting funny with everyone and not noticing it.Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
so ur saying u cant be funny wit guys? are u homophobic by any chances?
So to answer the thread's subject... NO IT DOESN'T!!!!!!!
squirrels
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Beyond a demonstration of basic social skills, no it really doesn't matter. But acting like an ass to people in ANY situation is bad basic social skills.