"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does this make me gay?

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Man, the nastiest thing ever happened tonight man, so I was searching YouTube for girls with nice asses, and I found this video with an ass that looked like a girls ass, but wasn't, and dude, I feel so f*cking g*y right now man. So I want to know, does this really make me gay dude? Seriously though dude, that's so f*cking nasty man, looks like a chicks ass, but it's a dudes. I don't think I'm gay for this, I mean the whole reason that I was attracted to it was because it looked like a girls ass. But yeah, does this make me gay dude? I am so f*cking traumitized by this man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No youre not gay...stop being so dramatic.....unless you liked it?
 

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No youre not gay...stop being so dramatic.....unless you liked it?
Not after I found out it was a guys ass I didn't.
 

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Oh god, get the **** over it.

PS, of course you're gay.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey, can't blame a guy for wanting to stay straight. It's freaking hard with all these misleading f*ggots running around. But perhaps its my fault, perhaps next time I do that, I should put the word, "Girl" or "Straight", into my search.
 

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zack i agree with you it doesn't make you gay unless you started jacking off to it
 

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I notice the only people who flip out over such stupid things like this are usually the ones that have something to hide. I mean, obviously you aren't comfortable with your sexuality if you're in here questioning it now are you?
 

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zack i agree with you it doesn't make you gay unless you started jacking off to it
So your saying I am gay? Look dude, if you're jacking off, and you find a movie of a nice looking feminine ass, that you think belongs to a chick, and then find out that it's not, there should be nothing wrong that, as long as you thought that it was a girl.

And you know, maybe you're might, but I just don't want to become gay, and that's why I freak out at any instance that might make me seem gay. I think it's that I've been in this house for so long, that I haven't been able to be around real girls for a while.
 

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If you fear *becoming* gay, then you most likely are gay. If you have any doubts as to whether you're straight, then its time to take a cold-hard look at yourself and how much you really *want* girls.

Maybe you're BI? I never did understand how someone could be with both sexes. To me, that's just fvcked up. One weekend you're doing a girl in the arse and the next you're taking it in the arse. Go figure, what kind of crap is that?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you give **** to, or receive **** from other guys?

Do you have any desire to?

Any answer to the affirmative to the above questions means you are... if you answer no to both then you're not...


But ultimately, lol @ all the people who TRY not to become gay... you never know, one day you may switch and go all Hollywood on it, once sex becomes purely a sport and all you're doing is seeking out pleasure to the point you don't even distinguish the pleasure givers, lol...
 

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maybe you should start looking into tranny porn in private
no one will know ;)
 

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tmpgstx said:
If you fear *becoming* gay, then you most likely are gay. If you have any doubts as to whether you're straight, then its time to take a cold-hard look at yourself and how much you really *want* girls.

Maybe you're BI? I never did understand how someone could be with both sexes. To me, that's just fvcked up. One weekend you're doing a girl in the arse and the next you're taking it in the arse. Go figure, what kind of crap is that?
Well, I've never actually sexually fantasized about another man, and I really don't have any desires to have sex with other guys, even when I was jacking to that, I was fantasizing about a girl. If I have any doubts that I'm straight, I blame that on wrestling practice. Dude, before that I had no doubts that I was straight. Let's just say, looking at other guys on top of each other almost everyday for 6 hours, isn't a pretty sight, rather disgusting. And after practice, man I hated that, getting in the same shower with other guys, and people wonder why I doubt my sexuality.
 

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Dude, get some balls and take one for the team. So you accidentally mistook a chick's ass for a guy. Tilt that pimp hat to the side and click on the next video.

The more you draw attention to yourself the more gay you actually look, which is what you're complaining about in the first place.

In English, if you can't get over it then that's your problem and I would advise you to not freak out about it to the world.
 

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MikeViper said:
Man, the nastiest thing ever happened tonight man, so I was searching YouTube for girls with nice asses, and I found this video with an ass that looked like a girls ass, but wasn\'t, and dude, I feel so f*cking g*y right now man. So I want to know, does this really make me gay dude? Seriously though dude, that\'s so f*cking nasty man, looks like a chicks ass, but it\'s a dudes. I don\'t think I\'m gay for this, I mean the whole reason that I was attracted to it was because it looked like a girls ass. But yeah, does this make me gay dude? I am so f*cking traumitized by this man.
viper viper,my best friend what does this topic have to deal with women?Nothing its a little mistake your not gay,if your d*ck gets hard of girls Your straight,if it gets hard of guys your gay!Simple as that, what a waste of time,thread and space!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dreamxhenry said:
viper viper,my best friend what does this topic have to deal with women?Nothing its a little mistake your not gay,if your d*ck gets hard of girls Your straight,if it gets hard of guys your gay!Simple as that, what a waste of time,thread and space!
What does this topic have to do with women? It's not hard, if I'm gay, I'll no longer be attracted to women. Oh yeah, and dreamxhenry, check out this hot girl:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vavPLACfFCk&feature=RecentlyWatched&page=3&t=t&f=b
 

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What does this topic have to do with women? It\\\'s not hard, if I\\\'m gay, I\\\'ll no longer be attracted to women. Oh yeah, and dreamxhenry, check out this hot girl:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q5uDcj6TDV8
So what does your sexuality have to deal with women?Because your on here talking if your gay or not,as what you said gay people won\'t find girls attrative,and thats what your topic is if your gay or not!Which has nothing to do with girls,but WOW dude that girl is freaken hot!!!!
 

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even though your wrong but whatever,WOW dude that girl is freaken hot!!!!
Heh, I hope you're not serious.
 

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Dude just be gay man, you are better off. You won't need Sosuave any more. You don't have to run game on guys ahahahaha :kick:
 

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Dude just be gay man, you are better off. You won\'t need Sosuave any more. You don\'t have to run game on guys ahahahaha :kick:
LMAO!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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