"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does this make any sense?

FranklinsTower

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Ok so I was hanging out with an ex, she was all over me she had her arms around my shoulders and i had my hands in her back pockets for a good 25 mins, and i tried to kiss her, and shes like this is awkward, we're just friends..

Does that make any sense to any of you guys? Body language was right and everything.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're letting her control the situation. She's teasing you then testing you to see if you're man enough to just ignore her. I garuntee if you ignore what she said and just went on with laying her, then 9 times out of 10 she would have gave in.
 
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