"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FranklinsTower

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Ok so I was hanging out with an ex, she was all over me she had her arms around my shoulders and i had my hands in her back pockets for a good 25 mins, and i tried to kiss her, and shes like this is awkward, we're just friends..

Does that make any sense to any of you guys? Body language was right and everything.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're letting her control the situation. She's teasing you then testing you to see if you're man enough to just ignore her. I garuntee if you ignore what she said and just went on with laying her, then 9 times out of 10 she would have gave in.
 
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