"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does this happen to anyone?

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DJ_in_making

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B4 I approach a girl I get worried....
Not b/c of rejection, I made a big improvement on that. It's b/c there are so many principles of Don Juan and I'm afraid I'm gonna break one.
I feel like I have to remember all of these, tons of articles. I know it isn't good and maybe there are specific things on need to focus on overall like confidence.
Heck, or maybe I need a break from this site. I will appreciate everyone's input.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In my opinion you seem like ur readin too much and not applyin enough, you need to take a day break and go approach approach and approach women, then you can post here and well help u figure out where u need improvement and what to study.

-Smooth-
 
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yea, I thought about that. Okay, I'll approach a lot then send in some field reports...
 
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