Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Does this happen to anyone?

DJ_in_making

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
38
Location
Big Ole apple
B4 I approach a girl I get worried....
Not b/c of rejection, I made a big improvement on that. It's b/c there are so many principles of Don Juan and I'm afraid I'm gonna break one.
I feel like I have to remember all of these, tons of articles. I know it isn't good and maybe there are specific things on need to focus on overall like confidence.
Heck, or maybe I need a break from this site. I will appreciate everyone's input.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Smooth Player 056

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2005
Messages
868
Reaction score
3
In my opinion you seem like ur readin too much and not applyin enough, you need to take a day break and go approach approach and approach women, then you can post here and well help u figure out where u need improvement and what to study.

-Smooth-
 

DJ_in_making

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 20, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
38
Location
Big Ole apple
yea, I thought about that. Okay, I'll approach a lot then send in some field reports...
 
Top