"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does this Guy Sound Desperate to you?

Socialreject

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desperate? Yeah... and?

Lonely? Definitely... so?

Psycho? Probably!

Btw.. 'Nice guys' aren't a safe bet for a decent guy. Not at all. Nice guys are the most manipulative, dangerous guys out there.

Every once in a while you run into a nice guy that is actually a decent guy, but is just so shy he sucks with women and makes them feel uncomfortable. I know because i was one of them.

Players and jerks fall into the same category as the typical nice guy. They also manipulate and play games and are mostly completely inconsiderate of a person feelings. However these guys DO get women... for reasons that should be common knowledge on this forum.

So you want a decent guy than go with either a nice guy with honour or a DJ. They are both equally rare although the nice guy with honour will be easier to get since hes basically love starved.

I think it would serve a lot of women to wisen up on guys. Save yourself the trouble of being screwed over by one guy after the next. Save yourself the trouble of becoming an uber guarded, unapproachable b*tch through bad experiences and heartbreak.

Plenty of decent guys out there, if you are capable of distinguishing between what matters and what doesn't. Who the hell cares if a guy is lonely or desperate? Does that make him a bad person? I don't think so... Figure out what you want and then take responsibility for your decision.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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