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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does This Guy Have The Right Idea?

gottagetthatgirl

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So I was thinking about hitting up the library to go pick up girls and did some Google searches and found this guy:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pm3sMxPJU8U

LOL as crazy as this guy seems I bet he gets some action doing what he's doing. So I guess my question is if going to the library is a good place to get girls or not.

Thanks
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what i have come to the conclusion is while people can give you tips and tricks to help you be confident, in the end, it's all on you. do what you feel like, that's when you are 'natural'.
 

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thanks but im thinking the library might be a hotspot in college towns. This dude says he "pretends" to go to college so he can go to the library to pick up girls. I bet at bigger colleges the libraries are full of girls.
 

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no doubt. anyone can hang around college campuses so yeah you can pick up chicks
 

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yea but whats the best way to go about it? Anyone know? I dont want to come off as desperate or anything.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bru..not to be bustin at you..but you already sounud desperate...if you cant find women in your normal state....why would you want to take time of from your busy schedule and go wait around at a college library to pick up chics? i mean..how sad does your friend sound...having to go ACT like hes in college to pick up chics..thats just disturbing..lol..

im sure you can go to a mall cruise around and pick up chics there, a mall is a more realistic place.....you should really be busy! most if not all the time..and the women you meet during your activities is who you should be picking up on..and im sure you meet single hot women in some way without having to go out of your way or pretend...even mcdonalds workers meet gorgeous women!
 

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well first the guy in the video above is not my friend,lol....I just found it in a Google search. But I just thought he had a decent idea, but im not gonna act like im a college student to get girls,lol.

Well like I dont want to look desperate. But we are all trying to meet girls, so why not study and meet one?
 

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gottagetthatgirl said:
well first the guy in the video above is not my friend,lol....I just found it in a Google search. But I just thought he had a decent idea, but im not gonna act like im a college student to get girls,lol.

Well like I dont want to look desperate. But we are all trying to meet girls, so why not study and meet one?
You just answered your own question,

Go Study at the library and meet them.

it helps if you're a member of said college/university, but most of them offer books to the regular public as well.

I found most hot chicks tend to either be in the romantic fiction area, fantasy area, or human sciences area (psychology, sociology, etc...)

Seriously though, it's more of a challenge, They're there to study, not get picked up. So a conversation in there is alot tougher since it'll probably be about said subject. Harder to lead conversation and escalate.

Honestly, i wouldn't use this as main hunting grounds. Sports events are the biggest :p
 

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sporting events? Well I cannot go to any of those. What about something like Barnes and Noble?
 

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Is this guy mentally retarded?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol, yea this dude does have issues I guess. I still thought his idea wasnt bad. And I can promise you its not me,lol.
 

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BTW do you guys think this guy is an actual retard? I don't myself, I think he's drunk in the video though.
 
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