"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does This Guy Have The Right Idea?

gottagetthatgirl

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So I was thinking about hitting up the library to go pick up girls and did some Google searches and found this guy:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pm3sMxPJU8U

LOL as crazy as this guy seems I bet he gets some action doing what he's doing. So I guess my question is if going to the library is a good place to get girls or not.

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what i have come to the conclusion is while people can give you tips and tricks to help you be confident, in the end, it's all on you. do what you feel like, that's when you are 'natural'.
 

gottagetthatgirl

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thanks but im thinking the library might be a hotspot in college towns. This dude says he "pretends" to go to college so he can go to the library to pick up girls. I bet at bigger colleges the libraries are full of girls.
 

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no doubt. anyone can hang around college campuses so yeah you can pick up chicks
 

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yea but whats the best way to go about it? Anyone know? I dont want to come off as desperate or anything.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bru..not to be bustin at you..but you already sounud desperate...if you cant find women in your normal state....why would you want to take time of from your busy schedule and go wait around at a college library to pick up chics? i mean..how sad does your friend sound...having to go ACT like hes in college to pick up chics..thats just disturbing..lol..

im sure you can go to a mall cruise around and pick up chics there, a mall is a more realistic place.....you should really be busy! most if not all the time..and the women you meet during your activities is who you should be picking up on..and im sure you meet single hot women in some way without having to go out of your way or pretend...even mcdonalds workers meet gorgeous women!
 

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well first the guy in the video above is not my friend,lol....I just found it in a Google search. But I just thought he had a decent idea, but im not gonna act like im a college student to get girls,lol.

Well like I dont want to look desperate. But we are all trying to meet girls, so why not study and meet one?
 

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gottagetthatgirl said:
well first the guy in the video above is not my friend,lol....I just found it in a Google search. But I just thought he had a decent idea, but im not gonna act like im a college student to get girls,lol.

Well like I dont want to look desperate. But we are all trying to meet girls, so why not study and meet one?
You just answered your own question,

Go Study at the library and meet them.

it helps if you're a member of said college/university, but most of them offer books to the regular public as well.

I found most hot chicks tend to either be in the romantic fiction area, fantasy area, or human sciences area (psychology, sociology, etc...)

Seriously though, it's more of a challenge, They're there to study, not get picked up. So a conversation in there is alot tougher since it'll probably be about said subject. Harder to lead conversation and escalate.

Honestly, i wouldn't use this as main hunting grounds. Sports events are the biggest :p
 

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sporting events? Well I cannot go to any of those. What about something like Barnes and Noble?
 

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Is this guy mentally retarded?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gottagetthatgirl

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lol, yea this dude does have issues I guess. I still thought his idea wasnt bad. And I can promise you its not me,lol.
 

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BTW do you guys think this guy is an actual retard? I don't myself, I think he's drunk in the video though.
 
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