“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Does the world not like DJ's?

lYlasTer

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I'm on a path to becoming a DJ. In the past two weeks, I've approached five HB 8.0+. The very first day of meeting them I'll end it with "What's your number?". All five of them tell me they have boyfriends. This is not unusual because I go to Ga Tech where it's a sausage party. I'm talking to my friends about this, and they all say the same thing. I'm coming on too strong. Both the guys and girls encourage me to get to know the girls a little better, then ask them out. Girls don't like guys that are too forward and it makes it obvious what you want.

What the **** is this? No wonder the world is full of AFC's.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The world loves Don Juans. There's a post somewhere on this site that lists the reasons why a girl tells you she has a boyfriend. Most likely, at this point in the development of your game, they're telling you this because you haven't triggered attraction in them. Just keep trying your stuff till you get it down, and eventually they'll tell you they have a boyfriend so you understand the need for discretion when you bust sperms on her face.
 

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If I were an AFC or anything but a Don Juan Id be pretty irritated if I knew a Don Juan had just walked into the room.
If I was a girl Id never date a Don Juan.

Don Juans are not liked but the key to being one is TO NOT tel anyone that you are.
 

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Originally posted by Don_Joffe

If I was a girl Id never date a Don Juan.

Don Juans are not liked but the key to being one is TO NOT tel anyone that you are.
your getting the wrong idea of a don juan.
firstly, a don juan should be liked and respected by all (most), to the point that others may be jealous of a don juan. if you're a don juan, you're everything you want to be. successful, happy, fun, outgoing, smart... people won't like you? come on..

if you are a proper don juan, any girl would love to date you. you'd be successful, happy, fun, outgoing, smart, passionate, loyal, have your own interests, romantic.

don joffe, i think you are confusing don juans and players.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Don_Joffe

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quest: Ya your right I was thinking of a Don as a player, and they are totally different. My bad.
 

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It has nothing to do with asking her out.

when you meet somoene..for the 1st time.

its about creating an environment for the best way to create attraction.

thats why being FUNNY helps..because it relaxes people...when people laugh it releases endorphins that make u feel better, smile, make eye contact, have small talk, sound like ur smart, DO NOT TALK ABOUT URSELF, dont be afraid to be provacative, and make some physical contact..all within 3 min..then give an awkward silence chance, look at her reaction to it.

is she smiling?
is she touching or taping, swirling her hair with her finger? ALL good signs.

if she looks interested...number closer.

also..keep practicing
 

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Even taking into consideration the difference between DJs and players, there are still a lot of people that wouldn't like DJs.

Few people like themselves enough just to live on the same planet as a successful, happy, fun, outgoing, and smart guy with a great body who has sex every other day.
 

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Being a DJ is more then just a practice. It's a mentality, an instinct, an art, and more packaged together. The world can't go without DJ's we're a product of evolution with society.
Being a DJ means haveing the ability to adapt to your sitution whatever the case may be. You should be able to at least create some postitive situations in which you should have some chance at sucess with a woman if you play your cards right.
Being a DJ teaches you how to play hold em' in the dating game. You've got to know how and when to play the cards you are delt, and how much you should wager in certain situations. Most importantly you've got to know how not to chase your loses and know that if you're down you can clean up and swing the game back in your favor with smart play.

500
 

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People love Don Juan's when you're in a social situation such as work, uni, school or dancing class whatever.

But girls dislike Don Juan's when you meet them in public and try to number close before you obtain deep rapport.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For real most of them flake out at first.It's annoying as fawk.B!tch there's almost zero chance of you seeing me again why don;t you just ante up?

That's why I only go after chics that give me signals.
 
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