"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does the Legend that is Pook still post here?

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Hi,

Anyone know if this guy still posts here or anyone to contact him?

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So pimp its scary

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pretty much not... at least not as pook.

Unless Senior Fingers is the same person as pook... but I don't expect him to post here anymore either.
 

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Run a "search" for Pook in the database...

He's posted recentl;y, well in the last 4 months if that's worth anything.

Just remember to expand your quest for information. Pook doesn;t carry all of the answers, he carries many, but there are others out there that deserve your attention as well.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alot of the great contributors to the site have dissapeared since the quality of post have gone down. We would be lucky if they stop by every once in awhile to see how its going.
 

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Yeah I think most of the good posters couldn't stand the KBJ's talking smack.
 

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Not really, their main objective was to get a gf (as in Pook's case). Once he did, the goal was met and no longer has to be so analytical. His needs in the woman department are being met.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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That's his blog?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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most likely, its a link on his member info
 

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I think 'the pook'............







































is depressed, I hope he doesn't get suicidal.
 

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pook was no legend.
 

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Re: But it's weird though...

Originally posted by KillaPetehog
In my opinion the articles on the Quick tips section of www.sosuave.com seems SO MUCH better than the tips offered on the Don juan discussion forum. Am I the only one who thinks so?

http://www.sosuave.com/quick/default.htm

I mean...THAT LINK right there has so much good tips that seems better than ALL of the shyt on these forums.
Start looking for the better articles then. There's a few around right now that you should discover. Maybe they aren't in thier entirty about girls, but they still prove points you might of overlooked.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pook had a way with words and really knew how to grab people's attention when writing a post or a story. When you were a AFC, absolutely clueless about why you always ended up in the friendship zone or why the jerks got the chicks, this guy showed us the light. And it was like waking up in the matrix.

He really had a awesome prespective in life. If you would compare him with Mr. fingz in regards with their prespective to things, you could see they had a lot in common. It seemed like they were two completely different people, from different places but had reached the same conclusion.

There was another guy, I cant remember his forum name, he nearly ended his life, until he read Pook's posts. He kept reading them for a while and he changed himself because of the motivation he found in those posts. A few years later, he made a post on all of this and how he had changed and stuff and how he had found the right girl. The post ended with him informing us of his wedding date.
 

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Pook has been the biggest inspiration to me on this entire board. His material seems to reach out to me the easiest, and it has helped me out a lot. I defintely recommend a large number of his posts to anyone. And killapetehog i'm gonna have to disagree with you on the tips on the sosuave.com page. I find them to be quite shallow and hasnt helped me personally, but if it works for u then hey its all good.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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does anyone know who the real person is??
 
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