"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does the Legend that is Pook still post here?

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Hi,

Anyone know if this guy still posts here or anyone to contact him?

thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So pimp its scary

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pretty much not... at least not as pook.

Unless Senior Fingers is the same person as pook... but I don't expect him to post here anymore either.
 

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Run a "search" for Pook in the database...

He's posted recentl;y, well in the last 4 months if that's worth anything.

Just remember to expand your quest for information. Pook doesn;t carry all of the answers, he carries many, but there are others out there that deserve your attention as well.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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blinkwatt

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Alot of the great contributors to the site have dissapeared since the quality of post have gone down. We would be lucky if they stop by every once in awhile to see how its going.
 

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Yeah I think most of the good posters couldn't stand the KBJ's talking smack.
 

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Not really, their main objective was to get a gf (as in Pook's case). Once he did, the goal was met and no longer has to be so analytical. His needs in the woman department are being met.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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That's his blog?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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unknowngod

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most likely, its a link on his member info
 

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I think 'the pook'............







































is depressed, I hope he doesn't get suicidal.
 

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pook was no legend.
 

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Re: But it's weird though...

Originally posted by KillaPetehog
In my opinion the articles on the Quick tips section of www.sosuave.com seems SO MUCH better than the tips offered on the Don juan discussion forum. Am I the only one who thinks so?

http://www.sosuave.com/quick/default.htm

I mean...THAT LINK right there has so much good tips that seems better than ALL of the shyt on these forums.
Start looking for the better articles then. There's a few around right now that you should discover. Maybe they aren't in thier entirty about girls, but they still prove points you might of overlooked.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pook had a way with words and really knew how to grab people's attention when writing a post or a story. When you were a AFC, absolutely clueless about why you always ended up in the friendship zone or why the jerks got the chicks, this guy showed us the light. And it was like waking up in the matrix.

He really had a awesome prespective in life. If you would compare him with Mr. fingz in regards with their prespective to things, you could see they had a lot in common. It seemed like they were two completely different people, from different places but had reached the same conclusion.

There was another guy, I cant remember his forum name, he nearly ended his life, until he read Pook's posts. He kept reading them for a while and he changed himself because of the motivation he found in those posts. A few years later, he made a post on all of this and how he had changed and stuff and how he had found the right girl. The post ended with him informing us of his wedding date.
 

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Pook has been the biggest inspiration to me on this entire board. His material seems to reach out to me the easiest, and it has helped me out a lot. I defintely recommend a large number of his posts to anyone. And killapetehog i'm gonna have to disagree with you on the tips on the sosuave.com page. I find them to be quite shallow and hasnt helped me personally, but if it works for u then hey its all good.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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does anyone know who the real person is??
 
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