I'm not sure what to do here. I have a good rapport with this girl, as I've known her for years, but as soon as I became receptive to her increasing interest in me, she went cold. Said she didn't want to ruin our great "friendship" (I didn't realize that years of fluff talk and her flirting hard with me in front of her boyfriends, her ex-boyfriends, my friends, her friends, barkeeps, small animals, children, priests (dirty fvckers!) or alone, and me pretending like I wasn't interested counted as a great friendship. I mean, it's not like we ever sat around drinking cognac's in the study, discussing film, literature or the world's socioeconomic problems or anything.).
Basically, if anyone's ever seen the movie Head On, it was like when the two characters (who were involved in a fake marriage, and went about sleeping with whoever they picked up at a club that night), almost have sex, but the girl says "We can't do this, because they we'll officially be husband and wife", or some such. It's kinda like that, only instead of me going to jail for murder, I went AFC and now she seems to think I need her and that hole between her legs.
Now I've spent the last few weeks becoming increasingly vexed and despondent over the situation. I can't focus on anything, co-workers ask me if I'm "In love" (eww!), I blow off other girls left and right, and all I can think about is her.
I haven't spoken with her since saturday, and I don't plan on calling her anytime soon. I've deleted her number to avoid cracking and sending a text message when I'm drunk. If she calls me this weekend I'll try not to answer it, even though I have a habit of answering without checking the ID, but if I do "I'm busy tonight.".
Is this the way to go about things, hoping for the best, or should I just call her a ***** in public and be done with it?
Basically, if anyone's ever seen the movie Head On, it was like when the two characters (who were involved in a fake marriage, and went about sleeping with whoever they picked up at a club that night), almost have sex, but the girl says "We can't do this, because they we'll officially be husband and wife", or some such. It's kinda like that, only instead of me going to jail for murder, I went AFC and now she seems to think I need her and that hole between her legs.
Now I've spent the last few weeks becoming increasingly vexed and despondent over the situation. I can't focus on anything, co-workers ask me if I'm "In love" (eww!), I blow off other girls left and right, and all I can think about is her.
I haven't spoken with her since saturday, and I don't plan on calling her anytime soon. I've deleted her number to avoid cracking and sending a text message when I'm drunk. If she calls me this weekend I'll try not to answer it, even though I have a habit of answering without checking the ID, but if I do "I'm busy tonight.".
Is this the way to go about things, hoping for the best, or should I just call her a ***** in public and be done with it?