"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does Tall Dark and Handsome have its appeal anymore? (my experience)

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Leo DiCaprio
Brad Pitt
Chris Hemsworth
Channing Tatum
and Ryan Gosling

Whenever it comes to mentioning men that are on the top tier in terms of looks people say those names. Well another thing, when I hear of friends and general social circles talking about good looking guys in real life, they fall into 2 categories.

1. Males with light features (Chris Hemsworth)
2. Males with medium features (Channing Tatum)

I don't know if it is just the south but I notice that when people talk about good looking men and men who are handsome, they are usually (actually always) in those 2 categories.

Has tall dark and handsome lost its appeal?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Moment Viscosity said:
Leo DiCaprio
Brad Pitt
Chris Hemsworth
Channing Tatum
and Ryan Gosling

Whenever it comes to mentioning men that are on the top tier in terms of looks people say those names. Well another thing, when I hear of friends and general social circles talking about good looking guys in real life, they fall into 2 categories.

1. Males with light features (Chris Hemsworth)
2. Males with medium features (Channing Tatum)

I don't know if it is just the south but I notice that when people talk about good looking men and men who are handsome, they are usually (actually always) in those 2 categories.

Has tall dark and handsome lost its appeal?
No. But you haven't lost your appeal for RooshV. Ask Roosh if he wears white or dark colored underwear. Then again you probably know.

Look at the positive in your obsession. At least RooshV has given you a purpose in your pathetic existence. :yes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bluenorther said:
"Dark" refers to intellectual outlook, not appearance.
Ditto it's crazy how much praise I get from girls(ESPECIALLY black girls) for my mixed features(slim face/nose/ears/naturally curly hair/caramel skin). I've been told how I look like Tiger Woods and Dwayne Johnson. So you got a black mark against you OP if you are dark fo' show. Black girls are the only ones who make a BIG deal about it though so your not 100% out of the game.

(If skin color is what you are getting at OP)
 
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LOL, Roosh's clowns are the ones that follow me here and troll my threads, I am pretty sure he is the one obsessed with me. Now lets do what Roosh hates the most, talk about trying to better ourselves.

As much as people talk about how mixed race guys are more attractive, almost all of the guys I know in my area that get constant attention for their looks are pasty White American males.
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hustlaz Ambition said:
Even though this guy can easily get any b!tch he wants, I'm guessing your some sort of Asian/Indian from this? If so that's a whole different can of ****ing worms dude. These guys are dead meat here in the south.

Also where do you live in the US region wise OP? West Coast/South/East Coast?
The Deep South, believe me I know. Anyone here who isn't the typical White fraternity kid is not considered attractive and btw I am sure most Bollywood actors can easily fit the Tall Dark and Handsome role. I have the Latin skin tone as people say and I am relatively light skinned for an Indian guy. Not that I am bragging about or trying to say a darker Indian guy like Mohinder is in anyway ugly, but people need to realize there are two different kinds of Indian.

Ya, I live in the ATL. Believe me, most White girls here will not go for anything other than your typical pasty White fraternity kid and they may make exceptions for Black men and that is it.

I wish there was a forum designed specifically for me to talk about the topic of race and looks and dating success almost ALL PUA forums undermine it and almost all of them act like it doesn't mean ****. My point is you can look like that guy, have game, and a decent career and you still won't land a Southern Belle.
 
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The Deep South, believe me I know. Anyone here who isn't the typical White fraternity kid is not considered attractive and btw I am sure most Bollywood actors can easily fit the Tall Dark and Handsome role. I have the Latin skin tone as people say and I am relatively light skinned for an Indian guy. Not that I am bragging about or trying to say a darker Indian guy like Mohinder is in anyway ugly, but people need to realize there are two different kinds of Indian.

Ya, I live in the ATL. Believe me, most White girls here will not go for anything other than your typical pasty White fraternity kid and they may make exceptions for Black men and that is it.

I wish there was a forum designed specifically for me to talk about the topic of race and looks and dating success almost ALL PUA forums undermine it and almost all of them act like it doesn't mean ****. My point is you can look like that guy, have game, and a decent career and you still won't land a Southern Belle.

You can impress the hot white chicks with your obsession of RooshV.

Have you ever asked white chicks their opinons on RooshV or how would an Indian guy do in Canada etc?

It could be a good icebreaker for you to use and get out of your basement. Unfortunately for you you'll never escape that diseased mind of yours. :yes:
 

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Do you think every brown-skinned woman goes for white guys? Do you think every white girl goes for every white guy even?

Why don't you go after girls that are attracted to you, maybe brown-skinned woman of your ethnicity or maybe no women. Why do non-white guys think white women should be attracted to them? If you're not even attracted to brown women then why should white women be attracted to you? Maybe you're just not good looking enough like a lot of white guys who can't get white women either. If all white women dated non-whites there eventually wouldn't be white women. You should thank white men that there are beautiful white women :D.
 
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Stagger Lee said:
Do you think every brown-skinned woman goes for white guys? Do you think every white girl goes for every white guy even?

Why don't you go after girls that are attracted to you, maybe brown-skinned woman of your ethnicity or maybe no women. Why do non-white guys think white women should be attracted to them? If you're not even attracted to brown women then why should white women be attracted to you? Maybe you're just not good looking enough like a lot of white guys who can't get white women either. If all white women dated non-whites there eventually wouldn't be white women. You should thank white men that there are beautiful white women :D.
Why is it that you get so mad at minorities for wanting to date white women but never white men who have an obsession with asian girls?

I can like whatever the **** I want but this discussion is about looks and not really dating success. Please rant elsewhere.
 

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Moment Viscosity said:
Why is it that you get so mad at minorities for wanting to date white women but never white men who have an obsession with asian girls?

I can like whatever the **** I want but this discussion is about looks and not really dating success. Please rant elsewhere.
The difference is when guys want to date another race and cry about it when they don't have the success they want, and think they are entitled to white women. Looks=dating success. You're not good enough looking for the girls you want to date, simple as that. A lot of white guys aren't good enough looking for white girls let alone for other races.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Stagger Lee said:
The difference is when guys want to date another race and cry about it when they don't have the success they want, and think they are entitled to white women. Looks=dating success. You're not good enough looking for the girls you want to date, simple as that. A lot of white guys aren't good enough looking for white girls let alone for other races.
yes but if a man is doing his best and has the looks (which I know I do) along with some game, obviously social factors come into play as well

we can't ignore that some areas are more close minded than others
 

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Moment Viscosity said:
yes but if a man is doing his best and has the looks (which I know I do) along with some game, obviously social factors come into play as well

we can't ignore that some areas are more close minded than others
Or maybe your looks and game aren't good enough, more likely.
 

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OP forget about it move. Like you said, only that white "frat" look gets ANY top tier southern belles here. Ignore these posters trying to put you down OP. maybe they just don't live in the DEEP Cotton South(Miss,Bama,GA) it is good ol' black and white down hear in these parts ya' know it youngin'. That Southern Hospitality don't come in brown or yellow. The only minority that pulls down here consistently, PERIOD are blacks. Especially in ATL area since us blacks have such a huge privelage there. If your Asian, Indian, or Hispanic you're not desirable period. I know an Indian dude in my city who is 6'1+, runs the biggest non-Greek party in the state(yes like Gatsby), has a 3.7+ GPA, has social proof out the ass, yet girls refuse to touch him for whatever reason.

Also the only Asian/Indian girls who I see with Asian/Indian men are old, like 40+. The younger ones? Forget about it, if she ain't FOB they all go with white/black dudes.

I ain't making excuses for OP or orientals at all, nor am I putting blinders over my eyes when it comes to what I see. No matter if its the rural or metro areas here in the south Asian/Indians/Hispanics get overlooked compared to the treatment they get in other regions. Especially Hispanics, when you consider what they can pull out in the West and the NY/NJ area.
 

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I wish there was a forum designed specifically for me to talk about the topic of race and looks and dating success almost ALL PUA forums undermine it and almost all of them act like it doesn't mean ****


I N D I A N - R A C E - T R O L L
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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