"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Does she want to date me?

E

English_Bloke

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2004
Messages
104
Reaction score
0
Okay so I want to go out with this girl. She is a 9 and has it all going for her, simply people think shes an angel.

Anyway tonight I got some time alone with her, got dinner at a nice place and we talked ALOT. And oh my god she talked. But it was good stuff that I was hearing:

Her: "I dont want you to take this the wrong way, but you know I was jealous when I heard she liked you"

Her: "He looked ok in his suit (her HC date) but you looked amazing at homecoming"

And then she talked about relationship stuff like first kiss etc. I felt some cool vibes going on, some teasing and stuff. I didnt react to her statments in an AFC way. Overall had a good night.

I ended the night ok, kiss on the cheek and plans for next weekend. I was questioning lip kiss - kinda wishing i tried it..?

Is this enough to ask her out on? Im just checking because I think this is one of my first situations where I think I nailed it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

D

DJ4Real

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2005
Messages
942
Reaction score
0
I don't have to hit ya in the head with a brick do I? Yeah, she likes you. I think you might have messed up by making plans immediately after the date. And, that kiss, what was that??? A meaningful kiss is usually on the lips and it signals for relationship. But, slow your role! I think you have a chance with this girl, but don't mess up.

Good Luck:cool:
 
K

kev me723

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 1, 2005
Messages
183
Reaction score
0
Location
illinois
do NOT ask her out yet. As a rule, i'll date a girl for maybe 2-3 weeks before making it official, depending on the situation. I didn't ask my current gf out until we had been seeing eachother for about a month and we had f*cked around quite a bit.

It's your call, I would say go for the lip kiss, if you can get to making out, great. The physical part comes before the relationship.. don't get confused or you'll be beating off a lot. After that, ask her out when the time is right. (My personal way is asking her out as we're making out) should work every time
 
P

Phat

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 14, 2005
Messages
382
Reaction score
1
Man hook up with her for a couple weeks.. then ask her out. You havn't even kissed her on the lips yet..
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top