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See? There is this girl in my classes who I have gotten to know pretty well over the last couple of weeks. She know that i am into her becfause of the stuff i do around her like kino and mirroring. Not so much C&F because she is a pretty shy girl. Well i was talknig to her and she said that if she didnt like this one guy, she would go out with me. he doesnt go to our shcool any more and is like a hour drive away and she only talkns to him online. Help.
 

Clownpaint

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What?!?

You're prepared to play second fiddle to some spaz who live an hour away?

Either get with her NOW or tell her to sling her hook NOW.
 

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Let's review.

SHE LIKES YOU
YOU HAVE THE CONNECTION
SHE'S SHY
....oh..she has a guy online she likes too.

That's 3 versus 1 for you.

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Start a conversation about shopping, see if she clicks on it. If she's into movies, ask her what her favorite movie is and what she'd like to see. If you can pull the cuddly girl out of her, your house.

The point is, it's not to directly ask her, but to have a topic where you can say "We're going." and she's so caught up in the topic that she says Yes. It's the Yes factor, and I have to find that post.
 

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if she liked you more, she would choose you over him.

dont be her number two choice.

come on, who wants to be the second pick?

move on, next!
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by penkitten
if she liked you more, she would choose you over him.

dont be her number two choice.

come on, who wants to be the second pick?

move on, next!
Exactly. If she show inerest in you later, tell her that you are with someone else and if you don't like the person you are with, then you could go out with her. This is being sarcastic of course, then ater saying this, next her sorry butt.
 

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yeah man, this dude might not even exist! You gotta not be bothered about this other dude, show her your awesome, a man needs to know when to make his move.
 

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Yeah i need to do that. But this guy is real, he was my freind but he moved away to a different school.
 

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Does she like me?

Who cares? Get the number or date or whatever!

Agreed with what Penkitten said. spin more plates and don't get oneitis.

comic_relief
 

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Sorry guys, Im beign an F***ing AFC!

Dont even bother posting anymore. Ive found my faults
 

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Nah, I think she's playing with you.....she even said one of the dumbest lie lines that I've ever heard, "If I don't like this other guy, then I'll go out with you".....WHAT.....come on......you should have said something ****y and funny....right now she's the one that has got you on the hook...and not visa versa...bad stuff.
 

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don't care abt whether she wants you. even if she doesn't, u shud have the ability to make her want you. the problem lies in whether she is worth the trouble. =)
 

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Originally posted by WOW1826
Sorry guys, Im beign an F***ing AFC!

Dont even bother posting anymore. Ive found my faults
dont be like that
you know that we reply to your threads just like anyone elses to watch your back. anyone can have a minute of uncertainity. we all have.
if one of us says something smart, its to snap your back to yourself. its not to be mean.
 

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Sounds like a pretty ****ty excuse out of saying she doesn't like you.
 

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Sounds like a pretty ****ty excuse out of saying she doesn't like you.
she isnt trying to burn bridges, she wants to keep him on the back burner. its common thing that people do, but it doesnt make it right. its wrong and it hurts when you get put on the burner and dont realise it.
 

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Ok.. let me rephrase. It sounds like a ****ty way of saying I'll like you when I find out the other guy doesn't like me.
 

penkitten

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Ok.. let me rephrase. It sounds like a ****ty way of saying I'll like you when I find out the other guy doesn't like me.
exactly however it is a good line to use if you are in her shoes, because for just a moment it kinda worked.
 
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