See? There is this girl in my classes who I have gotten to know pretty well over the last couple of weeks. She know that i am into her becfause of the stuff i do around her like kino and mirroring. Not so much C&F because she is a pretty shy girl. Well i was talknig to her and she said that if she didnt like this one guy, she would go out with me. he doesnt go to our shcool any more and is like a hour drive away and she only talkns to him online. Help.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Does she want me?
- Thread starter WOW1826
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Clownpaint
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What?!?
You're prepared to play second fiddle to some spaz who live an hour away?
Either get with her NOW or tell her to sling her hook NOW.
You're prepared to play second fiddle to some spaz who live an hour away?
Either get with her NOW or tell her to sling her hook NOW.
Docs
Banned
Let's review.
SHE LIKES YOU
YOU HAVE THE CONNECTION
SHE'S SHY
....oh..she has a guy online she likes too.
That's 3 versus 1 for you.
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Start a conversation about shopping, see if she clicks on it. If she's into movies, ask her what her favorite movie is and what she'd like to see. If you can pull the cuddly girl out of her, your house.
The point is, it's not to directly ask her, but to have a topic where you can say "We're going." and she's so caught up in the topic that she says Yes. It's the Yes factor, and I have to find that post.
SHE LIKES YOU
YOU HAVE THE CONNECTION
SHE'S SHY
....oh..she has a guy online she likes too.
That's 3 versus 1 for you.
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Start a conversation about shopping, see if she clicks on it. If she's into movies, ask her what her favorite movie is and what she'd like to see. If you can pull the cuddly girl out of her, your house.
The point is, it's not to directly ask her, but to have a topic where you can say "We're going." and she's so caught up in the topic that she says Yes. It's the Yes factor, and I have to find that post.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
if she liked you more, she would choose you over him.
dont be her number two choice.
come on, who wants to be the second pick?
move on, next!
dont be her number two choice.
come on, who wants to be the second pick?
move on, next!
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Exactly. If she show inerest in you later, tell her that you are with someone else and if you don't like the person you are with, then you could go out with her. This is being sarcastic of course, then ater saying this, next her sorry butt.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
JayUK
Don Juan
yeah man, this dude might not even exist! You gotta not be bothered about this other dude, show her your awesome, a man needs to know when to make his move.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Does she like me?
Who cares? Get the number or date or whatever!
Agreed with what Penkitten said. spin more plates and don't get oneitis.
comic_relief
Who cares? Get the number or date or whatever!
Agreed with what Penkitten said. spin more plates and don't get oneitis.
comic_relief
Nah, I think she's playing with you.....she even said one of the dumbest lie lines that I've ever heard, "If I don't like this other guy, then I'll go out with you".....WHAT.....come on......you should have said something ****y and funny....right now she's the one that has got you on the hook...and not visa versa...bad stuff.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
dont be like that
you know that we reply to your threads just like anyone elses to watch your back. anyone can have a minute of uncertainity. we all have.
if one of us says something smart, its to snap your back to yourself. its not to be mean.
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
you should just bang her and then just be friends
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Sounds like a pretty ****ty excuse out of saying she doesn't like you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
she isnt trying to burn bridges, she wants to keep him on the back burner. its common thing that people do, but it doesnt make it right. its wrong and it hurts when you get put on the burner and dont realise it.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Ok.. let me rephrase. It sounds like a ****ty way of saying I'll like you when I find out the other guy doesn't like me.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
exactly however it is a good line to use if you are in her shoes, because for just a moment it kinda worked.